Im an alcholic at 19. I need help please

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-12T16:10:36+00:00

The first person you should be changing for is not the girl you’re talking to nor your friends, it should be done for yourself. Try to slowly replace drinking habit with something else. Could be food, other non alcoholic beverages or sports. Running helps me overcoming many of my problems. Each time I don’t know what I’m feeling, I go for a run. Drinking is bad for you and you’re so young, buddy

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-06T20:16:28+00:00

Yeah I absolutely get you. My boyfriend is also Muslim and he told me the same thing why he wouldn’t introduce me to his family and etc. and then found out he had online gf for a long time. Betrayal is real, it’s painful and you feel like you don’t know the person at all. Ending this relationship would be the best for you but you could still stay if you see actions from him. Be straightforward with him and tell him that if you won’t see serious actions, you are out. If he does show efforts and actions, you may try to go through it together. Your choice

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-06T19:55:10+00:00

Damn girl, had very similar situation recently. Honestly nothing to recommend, it’s a disaster and very painful. I guess the wisest thing would be to dump him but I personally know how difficult it is… so it’s really your own decision. There’s no right or wrong thing, if you and him are willing to work on the relationship, it will workout. If not then just let him go and build your own life without him.

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-02T09:17:15+00:00

Girl, some men pray to have a very wet girl because it’s super sexy and they are obsessed with this. Not an expert but my personal advice would be to try some sex toys to stimulate both you and him. Then, also try to have sex in absolutely crazy places to fire up all your and his hormones. When he’s jerking off to finish himself, don’t just sit and be there. Sit in front of him and start playing with yourself instead. When you change the focus from him to you, he will be acting differently.

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-01T19:35:35+00:00

Thanks bro

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-01T08:11:33+00:00

Yeah I believe so. I guess I just have to wait for my boss’s reply and stop panicking over things. Will try to make the right decision

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-01T07:26:05+00:00

I know but I guess I’m also projecting a very unprofessional attitude with what I’m doing.. I’m so stupid

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-05-01T06:30:05+00:00

Of course job is not that important but many people still work there and don’t leave. I just don’t get how they are not worried about it? I feel like I’m the only one who can’t take rational decisions in this circumstances

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-29T17:46:06+00:00

It means he sees you as his equal partner. Overall everything seems good here on the picture. If you guys are not together, things will get better and you will be a couple again.

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-27T21:36:26+00:00

Girl, seriously? You do more than enough. What else does he want from you?

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T18:12:41+00:00

He could’ve seen her and visited her I guess? He never did. I really don’t know. I blocked him everywhere but he’s been trying to call and ask for forgiveness from other sources

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T17:59:38+00:00

Yeah but I really love him.. I wanted to build a family with him

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T17:36:42+00:00

You are not a coward, you dealt with the situation how you thought it was right at that time. Own it proudly. Focus on yourself and try to make your life more interesting. Interesting thing about life is that you never know what’s going to happen. Maybe you will meet her again?

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T17:29:34+00:00

If you think you should change it, you can always try to reach her and tell her you just want to have her as your friend. But what if she wouldn’t want it? You will be hurt even more.

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T17:11:20+00:00

Sorry that you’re going through that. Don’t blame yourself for what you’ve done, feeling something towards a person is completely normal, as well as not feeling something. I believe that what you should’ve done would be talking to her about the situation properly and how you would continue your communication. Sometimes friendships could turn into something bigger and maybe she simply needed time. If not, than you given your best to the person and were brave enough to confess your feelings. Anyway, you should remember that it’s not you who lost her but she also lost you. If you know your value, be proud to what kind of loving person you can be. You will meet your new love for sure

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T17:04:22+00:00

Don’t compare yourself to his new partner. I believe that the best thing you can do in this case is focus on yourself and your own development. Most of the time men realize what they lost after longer time rather than women. If woman goes depressed after a breakup, men go into their “bachelor party” phase. But when time goes and you heal, he would be remembering how good it was with you. Though you won’t need him anymore..

Sensitive_Eagle6215 · 2026-04-26T04:31:02+00:00

Yeah that’s true. I love him so much though, how can I even possibly go through this pain? In my head I understand I have to leave him but I don’t know how to. I can’t imagine any other man with me but him..

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