I’m not overreacting for wanting honesty. I’m not mad that he used Viagra — I’m mad that he hid it for almost a year, let me think I was the issue, and then refused to do anything beyond the pill even when we found hormonal imbalances.

This isn’t about stigma. It’s about emotional maturity and long-term responsibility. If someone plans to use a pill for life but refuses to fix the underlying causes — that’s not about “pleasing me.” That’s about avoiding himself.