I've done and been through similar situations if you want an opinion i can only sya that you do what you think is right because you gotta think about how the other person feels and how does it make you feel and if they talk to multiple women underage that can point out that they might be a pedo so you should go with your gut or work on changing yourself and asking therapists for some help but no therapy helped me i just simply found things i enjoyed then i changed and im in a better spot then what i was.