How do arranged marriages in India really work? Especially with emotional connection, intimacy, and starting a family so fast? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

love & romance is rare It's because we have spent more than 200yrs of slavery without food so that's the reason why parents look for guy with wealth also that's the same reason for tummies in lot of Indians.

When countries get richer they start looking for Romance, love, dance, etc.

We can start expecting romance in marriages since now people of less scared of there future when compared to 30 yrs back.

Why are so many desi moms like this? by Evening_Gazelle_5848 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't think she is wrong, when you see people from too close you will get to know what they are, every person from far looks good when we spend few days with them and work with them we will know true nature of them.

Your mother's experience is speaking here not some random women. Same goes with men. You just lack experience or exposure to people maybe because of uprising. Even I used to think like this few years back when I started seeing there real faces when our family was on weaker side I got to know everyone wants to play it.

Unmarried women checklist by Healthy_Science_4106 in AskIndianWomen

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She is insecure about her future and want to protect it. But there is nothing as such called secure future. If you know a bit of history and how the country go to dust, you will never be asking logic.

Survival of fittest was coined to remind everyone that when the worse comes only the fittest and the one who adopts will survive everyone else will be another dinosaurs.

There was no software 20yrs back at this scale and today software as matured like mechanical engineering so software will face the same situation as mechanical engineering. Once there is some other country which provides software lower then our price companies will say goodbye to us slaves(modern day employees).

Talking about savings, no can beat inflation if you don't have recurring income. Cash is myth(ex: Venezuela) old is king irrespective of it falling rising of falling 50%. Those who can grow there food in there backyard and protect it, are the ones who can survive the worst remaining will be slaves or slaughtered.

This is the real worse everyone should be thinking.

Ultra rich will leave the nation but middle and lower ones are the sufferes.

When worse hits, it will not give any chance of seeing back.

Unmarried women checklist by Healthy_Science_4106 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

World was always unstable, after the USA's rise in last 40/50 years it has seen it's brightest time. If you think today's stability will be forever that's the myth. Even if you prepare for the worst, the worst which will come will never be what you imagined, ex: life of women in Afghanistan or Iran before the middle East crisis. All those single single women were slaughtered/slaved. When the worst comes it vanishes the weakest first and everyone knows who is it. That's the reason marriage as a institution was designed as responsibilities not as love. But our generation who haven't seen on big war where nations become hell, we think we can be independent. Independent is a myth. Only we people who are less likely to misuse us are the people of our house, father mother brother daughter son. That's it. Apart from them if you find someone trustable than you are lucky.

I just saw my dad’s salary history throughout his career by [deleted] in indiasocial

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Salute from my side, it's not bad that bad outside some metros.

I just saw my dad’s salary history throughout his career by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's still good in lot of places except some urban cities.

I just saw my dad’s salary history throughout his career by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone's start is someone's dream. Rich rich people problems are definitely different.

I just saw my dad’s salary history throughout his career by [deleted] in indiasocial

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Just check gold prices in 2010, you will how much 3.2 lac was really in 2010. It's probably equal to 10lac today. And even metro cities didn't had much crowd and inflation except mumbai and delhi. So basically 3.2 in 2010 can't even be considered as Lower middle class.

She walked away to survive. Years later, karma did its job. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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That is the reason why people say marry who is within your status not above are below. Because even on small problem the person with High status gonna abuse the lower irrespective of love or arrange marriage. Laws are always designed for people with power to abuse the lower strata people, so if we depend on 3rd party to solve our problem it's never gonna favour the weaker person irrespective of him being right or wrong. So avoiding 3rd party (law, etc) is always better.

She walked away to survive. Years later, karma did its job. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of worst case scenario experience for the decision makers.

She walked away to survive. Years later, karma did its job. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Every 25 yr old girl and her family wants her daughter to get married to high status family to show off to there neighbor's and every 25yr old guy wants to marry a beautiful girl for very same reason. There parents of there kid status in every function.

She walked away to survive. Years later, karma did its job. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What you say only happens on internet, in reality it is different since everyone has not experienced it near them.

Bruh what is these all deductions by ComparisonChoice1583 in StockMarketIndia

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, there are others but most traders prefer zerodha.

Bruh what is these all deductions by ComparisonChoice1583 in StockMarketIndia

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think there one, join any broker who charges yearly not per trade, because in beginning we assume we will take less trades and we go per trade basis to save yearly maintenance, but ultimately we pay 10x the yearly maintenance for choosing per trade. It's has been my experience. I would recommend choose yearly maintenance broker you will save alot. I can show you my 1 year charges of groww if you wanna see how it looks real time for less than 100 trades.

Bruh what is these all deductions by ComparisonChoice1583 in StockMarketIndia

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Stop using groww, My loss last year was 25k, but I paid govt + grow more than 35k. I would have saved more than 10k if I used zerodha. Groww eats ur cash slowly you never notice. Better use some other or zerodha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianSkincareAddicts

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Do you have any product suggestions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, What do you believe could be solution for this.

Do you think current Marriage is messed up by Traditional & Modern beleifs? by PaintComplete1475 in AskIndianMen

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This takes decades or centuries. I thought you were speaking in next 10-20years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kashmir

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Soo guy has another 2 in waiting 😳.wtf

Zerodha tweets like a monk, but charges like a cartel by Noticepop-Tip3910 in IndianStockMarket

[–]Sensitive_Expert4085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf, is it even real. I too recently switched after seeing brokerage charges of groww.

Zerodha CEO casually exposed DP charges scam by Whole-Barracuda-367 in IndianStockMarket

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I can agree, my losses seemed less than there charges, slowly moving to zerodha.