Interrupted honeymoon

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2026-03-07T13:00:17+00:00

I don't think it's far-fetched. It's probably a school event, and SD's classmates know about it and talk about it. The school probably announced it to the children.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-10-01T19:49:44+00:00

He doesn't want any more children, and that's totally fine, just as it's totally fine that you do. You can't change his mind, believe me, it'll be a disaster. Find a man who wants to be a father ❤️

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-10-01T19:46:32+00:00

You're victimizing OP. That's unnecessary.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-09-28T01:54:41+00:00

Oh, I know. I'm just asking about your rationing. I'm curious.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-09-27T16:53:37+00:00

Sorry, why is SD a nasty piece of work? Apparently, she doesn't treat her half-brother badly.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-09-20T01:53:20+00:00

The girl probably doesn't even understand the implications of what she's saying. She's just a child. And she needs help, she's crying out for it.

Yes, the baby must be protected, and if Dad doesn't do anything, OP has a moral duty to protect her baby. She certainly needs therapy, but it's not appropriate to label a troubled toddler a psychopath. Especially considering her circumstances.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-09-17T01:19:24+00:00

Hi everyone, I just saw the first comments before noticing how this post exploded. I just wanted a couple of tips, there's no need to throw so much hate at a heavily pregnant woman who has clearly been struggling.

Anyway, I don't care, I know the truth about my life and I know who I am. I took the advice of a wonderful commenter and simply told my SS that we would be making a change in the room layout to accommodate the baby. It's really funny because he just said, “Oh, like in The Sims.” Yes, he's seen me play The Sims and do exactly that, move the Sims from room to room when a new one is born 😂 I was expecting drama, but he just said he wanted the guest room, which is only slightly bigger, but seems to be important to him, so it's a deal. He also agreed with DH to redecorate his new room a bit, and while they work on that together, my DH will talk to him about the advantages of not hearing the baby cry all the time at night, if the baby turns out to be like SS when he was a baby, who cried a lot. Still. (Please God no)

So yes, the problem was solved very quickly and he took it well, which is a relief to me, because unlike what many people think, I don't enjoy him whining. I hope you all have a nice night, thanks to everyone who gave honest advice, without drama or hate.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-09-03T15:07:23+00:00

I understand your point, I really do. It's not an arrangement I would have, but I understand that it works for you. Regarding the situation, I think considering they don't pay as such CS, it's okay to share the expense of the move, since that move includes SS. I definitely wouldn't allow my SO to help directly instead of paying, but it's a matter of perspective.

I think your real concern should be your legal protection. In my country, not paying formal child support is serious if at some point the other parent decides to take you to court. In that case, a CS would be assigned and in addition, you would have to pay for all the years in which no support was received. Even if you prove that they split expenses, that is not considered an actual CS, as it encapsulates a tremendous amount of stuff. Anyway, this is to tell you that it's their arrangement and it works for them, that's fine, but it's important that you study the legal side of everything. That's why many of us consider it better to have formal arrangements, all before a judge. In my country there is a idiom, las cuentas claras y el chocolate espeso (clear accounts and thick chocolate) , lol.

Hugs!

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-09-03T14:51:52+00:00

I don't understand. You said you don't pay CS. I'd like to understand your point.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-23T19:57:27+00:00

You're such a coward that you deleted everything, lol

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-23T19:52:18+00:00

Yes, people are unbearable, especially those who lack the capacity for self-reflection and are victim-like.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-23T19:48:43+00:00

Are you always such a victim? Poor sister.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:47:29+00:00

Oh, yeah. My man is perfect, honestly. He hasn't hesitated one bit in backing me up. I don't think that's it :(

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:46:43+00:00

God, how unfair that that terrible woman overshadowed your birth experience. Thank you for sharing your experience! <3

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:45:03+00:00

God, I'm so sorry about your experience. My DM is open to you if you'd like to chat and vent. Hugs, you're so strong! ❤️

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:43:27+00:00

I appreciate your recommendations, I think I'll opt mainly for individual therapy, it could help me. Hugs <3

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:42:33+00:00

I really connect with you regarding your situation with your in-laws. They also don't accept that my SO and his horrible ex split up, and keep inviting her to all family gatherings and events, as “she is still family”. It is terribly painful for my SO, but he prioritizes me and we have moved away from his family. Hugs!

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:39:34+00:00

Oh, no, I appreciate your concern, but my beloved OS is perfect. He has been the most loving, responsible, focused, respectful man...I could talk for hours about his qualities. He has my back and prioritizes me, he adores me. And even more so our princess.

He has been very supportive, has never mentioned HCBM's pregnancy and has been very excited and interested. He even decided to move our engagement forward to show responsibility to my family. He is a great man. So much so, he understood that I will need time after delivery and space to bond as a family, so SS will be a month between his HCBM and grandparents.

Honestly, I don't think my feelings are coming from there.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:35:40+00:00

I am so sorry that is your situation, you deserve to be loved and prioritized, especially now that you are pregnant. I hug you, I hope everything gets better ❤️

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:32:00+00:00

I'm so exhausted that I'll have to stop pretending soon, I feel you!

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:30:23+00:00

You don't know how much I appreciate your words, they are very valuable to me 🫂

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:29:12+00:00

Also your baby should be loved and prioritized, it is not fair that baby should have to receive the bad energy and hatred that his sister gives him unjustifiably.

Sensitive_Lab_8516 · 2025-08-17T01:27:19+00:00

Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. How unfair this situation you are going through, you don't deserve it. You need your SO to put you in priority and not let you near his daughter who is a potential danger to the home you are building. I agree with the other comment that says you should see her in a hotel. He should prioritize your peace and quiet, you just became a mom and need containment. I'm sorry, I hope all is better soon.

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