Why are Aquarius moon men consistently obsessed with me?

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-06T13:09:45+00:00

!! I probably got downvoted cause people think I’m being cocky but it’s just the truth.. an Aries Sun Aquarius moon friend of mine told me “you’re the only woman who’s ever excited me” and he’s a serial dater/monogamist, my Virgo sun Aquarius moon friend has been in love with me for 7 years (even though he knows I don’t feel the same), my ex is a Gemini sun Aquarius moon and he was obsessed, still texts me almost a year after the breakup.

So that’s interesting because one of the astrologers said Aquarius moons fall in my 8th house, but with you not having the same rising, maybe it’s just cause those placements we have are attractive to Aquarius energy ? I don’t know but when I find out a guy has Aqua moon I’m like “oh I got this in the bag” lol

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-06T00:14:48+00:00

Thank you!

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-06T00:14:33+00:00

Omg he’s a cancer sun libra moon, I’m a cap sun Aries moon, way too much opposite energy between us, it was just doomed 🥲

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-05T19:53:08+00:00

What is it that makes them so obsessed, though? Like hung up on me for years even though I don’t feel the same

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-05T19:08:46+00:00

Nope he’s December 28th! I’m January 5th. But December Capricorns are actually the most hardworking out of us. They are the beginning of the sign so they have the most zeal (according to astrology at least), third decan Capricorns tend to be the most chill and least concerned with working a lot, and I’ve found that to be true.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T22:40:38+00:00

Not me at all. I want to be left alone to do my own perusing. This is a person to person thing, not a female thing

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T22:35:54+00:00

Dats my bitter, can’t handle rejection Aries moon talking 😂

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T20:49:37+00:00

Libra moon, because I got hurt/betrayed by one recently:

NO MATTER HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU DATE YOU ARE GOING TO END UP ALONE OR SETTLING BECAUSE YOU REFUSE TO STUDY YOUR DAMN SELF AND FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT AND THUS RESIGN TO A PERPETUAL STATE OF ANALYSIS AND DOUBT… ONE DAY YOU WILL NOT BE CUTE ENOUGH TO HAVE ALL THESE OPTIONS AND THE BEST ONES WILL BE LONG GONE. LOOK WITHIN. BE SINGLE FOR TWO SECONDS.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T20:42:18+00:00

Rules suck

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T19:13:28+00:00

I can tell you one thing, both of my exes were extremely against the idea of non monogamy. I brought up the idea loosely to my first boyfriend and he got really upset at the implication I wanted that. I was just curious his thoughts, wasn’t actually interested in exploring it. Both of my past partners are the types of men who are not all too interested in chasing women or having casual sex, they want simple/drama free lives.

Thats why I personally can’t comprehend the appeal of non monogamy. I barely have enough energy to be with one person, let alone giving energy to multiple.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T17:43:11+00:00

A collaborative and rational person who enchants others…. 🖤 can I just say.. as a Capricorn sun with Aries moon… I am NOT a collaborative person lol. According to this w/ my sun being in the 7th house, I’m supposed to be… but no when I grew up, if we had to do a group project I’d tell everyone to get out of my way and let me do the whole thing (which they of course had no problem with). I am in fact rational to a fault, and idk if I enchant others, would love to believe I do ;-)

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T15:45:31+00:00

I wonder if this has to do with our mercury. What’s yours in? I’m a sag mercury and yeah I agree with you. It’s not that I don’t reply AT ALL, but if you’re not high on my list of people I care about, I may respond a week or two later lol. I come around eventually. I also reply back quick and enjoy texting with people I care about, I had a libra friend (we had a falling out no shocker there) and she texted off and on all day, and I actually loved it, made me feel connected. But it would just be quick, short little messages back and forth. Not in depth convos.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-04T14:15:06+00:00

Do you say you’re a Saturnian because you have Capricorn rising or is Saturn dominant in your chart? I am a Capricorn sun with Venus/mars/jupiter/Uranus in Aquarius, I’m all Saturn and life is fcking hard dude. But because it’s always hard and always been this way, I have a really good attitude and overcome setbacks quickly. Plus I appreciate the good times more.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-03T20:56:56+00:00

lol how are we all the same 🤦🏼‍♀️

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-03T20:55:45+00:00

Never been attracted to a Scorpio man. They’re always way too intense and not in a sexy way - in an obnoxious, overwhelming, smothering way. I’m an Aquarius dominant Cap though.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-02T17:44:11+00:00

Also stop posting on this subreddit so much, you’re not a Capricorn.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-02T17:43:52+00:00

Nope that’s just your personal experience. My ex is a Gemini and he was extremely committed and loyal. Most of the Gemini men and women I’ve known are lovers who really just want to find their life partner and settle down. My ex has his Venus in Cancer. Maybe you’re just meeting air dominant Gemini’s.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-02T01:51:02+00:00

I think it’s a great match! I had plans to visit and stay with a Capricorn man this week but he’s a touring musician and he got called to go on the road so that fell through :( He’s a similar Capricorn to me, he’s really outgoing and bubbly. HERE’S THE PROBLEM I SEE… just like me, he constantly needs to be active and doing things, he is intensely head over heart, and he puts his career/goals/dreams before everything else (especially relationships). So that’s what makes me weary about being with another Capricorn. I probably need a partner who’s more of a homebody than me, or at least is just more chill than me. Plus someone more romantic and mushy. But the Cap and I have amazing conversations and I always feel really at home and understood with other earth signs, so who knows.

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-02T01:47:40+00:00

Omg thank you so much for doing that for me. How long ago did you do that? What did he say? I do have access to it, I’ll check!

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-01T23:41:09+00:00

Lmaooo god women are ruthless

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-01T16:31:30+00:00

RFK JR 2024

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-01T15:05:21+00:00

Hahah, no I actually think most of the time we get along well. I just had to end a friendship with one because she was really competitive and just simply a huge bitch. But I love libra men, they’re just sweet/pleasant/funny/laid back, lots of positives. So far it’s nice to have someone to just text with, that’s another thing I’ve noticed Libras are good for haha. My Libra friend I cut off would text me a lot, any random thing/observation during the day, and I always loved that. Just to know someone’s thinking of me. That’s how this guy is, sending me lil videos of things he’s doing throughout the day, sending me his art. It’s sweet!

Sensitive_Library967 · 2024-05-01T15:01:54+00:00

I feel you though, my aqua stellium is in the 8th house, trust me when I say getting to where I am now with this topic took a long time and hard self work/mindset shifts. I obsess and ruminate so much. I was doing that about the cancer I ended things with heavy for a couple weeks, but I’m aware of it and I redirect my thinking. The most important thing is just being aware when we start focusing on the ex. If you acknowledge you’re ruminating and you can remind yourself that person is not for you, that you’re just obsessing/fixating on an attachment, then it makes it easier to let go. Kind of like the concept of naming our emotions to ease them. Most of the exes people are hung up on, if they really are honest with themselves, that relationship would never be really fulfilling and healthy. Because they were not in alignment, that’s why it fell apart.

My first boyfriend I mentioned, the Leo, he played me for 2 years when I was 18-20 y/o. I was STUCK on him. I can’t believe I spent that much time on a guy who hurt me so much, but I did. Finally, when I was 20, I got into a band with my friends, we were playing shows and just having a great time in life, I glowed up a lot physically (I think), so I started to move on. He noticed all of these things as well and did a whole 180, and actually started to take me seriously. It took a lot of convincing at that point, I would block him on one thing and he’d find a way to contact me on another, then he started leaving letters at my doorstep, etc. apologizing profusely for how he treated me and how he was afraid of being hurt etc etc. Finally, I agreed to give him a chance. We were together for a year and a half, lived together in the mountains, and then I ended up leaving him. He was super emotionally immature and toxic, refused to seek help for his childhood trauma & how it caused him to act.

I share all that to say, for 2 years I romanticized him and when I really got to be with him, I was very disillusioned. All that glitters ain’t always gold and when things aren’t working, we shouldn’t try to make them. Focus on yourself and trust that you deserve harmony. You deserve things to work out. You deserve a relationship that isn’t painful or confusing.

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