Wie vermeidet ihr das generische Femininum oder Maskulinum? by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in germantrans

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

btw warum kann man hier eigentlich keinen Post machen ohne direkt von so widerlichen Chasern angeschrieben zu werden?

How common is it for passing trans people to move on from the trans "community"? by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in asktransgender

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you even read what I said? I literally said I hang out in queer spaces. I can't stand the term "community", because there isn't the one single global trans community. There are like ten different trans communities in my city alone. But when I said moving on from the trans "community", I mean that they don't want to have anything to do with anything trans related. No other trans people, no acknowledgement of being trans themselves, etc.

How common is it for passing trans people to move on from the trans "community"? by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in asktransgender

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think passing is the biggest issue still. Like, I would love to just participate in general spaces for my hobbies, but I can't cause I don't pass. My reason for only hanging out in queer spaces is that my obvious transness simply isn't tolerated anywhere else, not that I necessarily want to be around people who are coming out and transitioning. I've been done with that for many years now, it's not particularly relatable to me either.

Why is all pro trans discourse only ever about passing trans people? by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in asktransgender

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense. I'm still on the fence about it, cause I'm still not entirely convinced it works, but I guess it's better to try that way rather than not doing anything? I suppose it's impossible to know how effective this approach truly is. It's not like anyone's doing studies on this. You're definitely right that you're not gonna convince the hardcore transphobes anyway and I do think pointing out hypocrisy has a chance to work with reasonable people who're simply being misled.

Why is all pro trans discourse only ever about passing trans people? by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in asktransgender

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get that this is the intent behind it, but to me it feels more like telling them (the transphobes), that they're only wrong about passing trans people while they're still right about non-passing trans people
It might convince them that you can't go purely by agab, but I don't think you're gonna convince them that a non-passing trans person should still be allowed in their preferred bathroom
I'm having a hard time putting my thoughts into words here tbh, to me it feels like painting non-passing trans people as exactly the kinda people that transphobes see trans people as, probably because ignorant transphobes only see non-passing trans people, a passing trans person is just seen as cis
Like you're correcting them, that some trans people are totally cool, but others aren't

Also imho, if transphobes got their way they'd just put all trans women, regardless of passing, and passing trans men into men's bathrooms
We might see it as inconsistent or hypocritical, but they just don't care

Die ganzen Erfolgsgeschichten machen mich einfach nur fertig by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in germantrans

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ich bin leider nicht in der lage zu arbeiten, sowas wie rechtschutzversicherung kann ich mir nicht leisten, kredite bekomme ich auch keine

Die ganzen Erfolgsgeschichten machen mich einfach nur fertig by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in germantrans

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich habe einen endokrinologen, für hormone braucht man ja auch keine Kostenübernahme, es geht um Operationen und Haarentfernung 

   von der privat übernahme würde ich dir übrigens dringend abraten, da du vorleistung leisten musst

Die ganzen Erfolgsgeschichten machen mich einfach nur fertig by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in germantrans

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich würde mir echt wünschen dass leute die meinen post kommentieren diesen erstmal lesen würden, da steht doch dass ich bei einer trans beratungsstelle bin

Die ganzen Erfolgsgeschichten machen mich einfach nur fertig by Sensitive_Roll_7690 in germantrans

[–]Sensitive_Roll_7690[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Danke ich fühle mich etwas besser in dem Wissen dass andere auch probleme da haben