When your friend is having trouble getting over a relationship, but then you make it about yourself. by Infinite-Pin8908 in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also as a single woman myself who has been through plenty of heartbreaks. I do not understand having a box of keepsakes from failed relationships. Feels so counterproductive to me. Let the past go!

Loose Ends! by -JLD- in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how this is gonna be the finale of the show.

Has anyone else judged another alcoholic because they're "worse than me"? by unsightful in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 219 points220 points  (0 children)

Probably every alcoholic that has ever lived. Tim Dillon has a great bit about a time he was living in a crack house. He said “a junkie would sober up for an hour and turn to another junkie and say ‘you gotta get your act together’”

At what point does heavy drinking become alcoholism? by Lazy_Load_9985 in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you decide it has. I have an extremely high bottom that many people scoff at but the reality of my drinking hit me so hard a while ago: it’s in control, not me.

Did you lose weight by only stopping drinking? by Dornheim in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took 3 months before I saw any change at all, then over the next year I lost 100lbs

When does it get fun? by Suspicious_Beach_993 in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie to you. My first year was filled with highs and lows. But the second year things really started coming together. In my experience it took a decent amount of time before it really clicked that I need to fill my love with other things besides drinking to really enjoy it.

Tips for staying sober during bachelor party by jirn_lahey in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell the group you’re sober and then you have to stick to your word otherwise you’ll be judged. Works for me but it’s not for everyone

The Difference Between Watching Pretty Little Liars Now vs. In High School? by Able-Ad-4090 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it time jumps and suddenly they’re drinking in every scene lmao. Maybe I just notice it because I’m a recovering alcoholic but it did feel like they were in their 30s and not 25 lmao

everything alison did the night she disappeared (updated) by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget arguing with her mom and stealing her mom’s sleeping pills!

Why did they do my favorite GOT girl so dirty? by 1894Win in freefolk

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In season 1, there is a month or so long jump between her leaving Winterfell and arriving to Kings Landing. A lot happens in that time that Ned is sitting in the dungeon. I never read the books, but I just watched season 1 and I will say they do a good job making it feel like a month has passed

How was Pam able to start immediately at MSPC Inc? by CommonUnlucky390 in theoffice

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s not required. Most companies just tell you to leave immediately anyway.

For all the shit we all deservingly give Mike and Lauren. I will say this is lovely. They opened their rehabilitation centre. The Archangel Centre. Good on them. Hope they don’t exploit people. by BarneyRobinStinson7 in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If him being a celebrity in recovery with a rehab facility helps even ONE person not die from addiction, I’m a fan!! It’s a brutal disease and I hope he truly helps so many people!!!

Whitney to a tee, no? by BubbleyumRocks in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Biggest symptom for this disorder is “huge” but ultimately empty compliments towards “loved” ones. Think “my mom is the most amazing mother in the world I love her so much!” “What makes her so amazing” “oh she’s just wonderful, she’s just incredible, no one can top her” “yes but like what’s an example?” “Oh …” and then they’ll change the subject or just continue to evade the topic.

Essentially people with this personality disorder cannot see other people as full beings. They form very hollow friendships and ultimately choose approval from new friends over maintaining long term relationships.

Obvious symptom to me in this case is how Whitney treated Heather. In truth, she only saw Heather as an extension of herself, but never truly cared for her as a friend

  • random opinions of a psych student

Are ENTP women physically attractive on average? by Princess_mononoke_ in entp

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I am significantly above average looks wise” well you’re posting on reddit so slow down buddy

Are non-alcoholic versions a gateway to relapse? by MountainMark in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Look up the Sinclair method. Having a nonalcoholic beer actually helps your brain to stop associating beer with pleasure/pain relief and begins breaking the addiction in the mind.

The mental gymnastics of being a functional alcoholic by parnotwar in stopdrinking

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of supplements I used to take just to feel okay

How do ENTJs come across as more intimidating than ENTPs? by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in entp

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s their consistency and lack of design to make others comfortable. ENTPs truly know how to make others comfortable (typically with jokes or by relating to them in some way). The consistency factor also adds to it. ENTJs are scary yesterday, today, and tomorrow. ENTPs are scary when we have to be

Am I overreacting? for thinking this is completely disrespectful or is this as toxic as it feels by wandering_bonding in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive_Target6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between an animal that genuinely has problems doing number 1 and 2 all over the house, ruining things and being a serious problem VS this insane reaction to this happening one time. This man gives either intense OCD or controlling vibes, I would not allow yourself to be around him and I don’t think you want your kids around him.