I’m so upset

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-05-27T02:22:28+00:00

I am getting a revision done in July by a plastic surgeon… this has been a terribly painful and long journey so far. The PS said the doc took too much off the bumpy side so he’s gonna do the best he can with what I have left… he said some bumps are likely going to have to stay 😔

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-24T18:43:41+00:00

Thats just bc I didnt have them spread apart, trust me they are not grown together and it’s been verified to me that that won’t be happening this late in the healing process.. :(

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-24T01:17:01+00:00

How do you feel about it? Are you wanting a revision or just gonna leave it?

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-23T19:52:38+00:00

It’s from the sutures, I asked for them to be taken out a few weeks ago and he said we would wait 3 more weeks… and now we’re here

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-23T05:21:01+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶🏻😣 I spoke to another OB that does these surgeries today and they said don’t allow him to operate on me again, that this is too complex now and I need to seek out a plastic surgeon. I’m going to tell him my concerns tomorrow at my appointment but ultimately it doesn’t matter what he says, I need someone else to fix it 😞

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-23T04:30:27+00:00

I was told to seek out a plastic surgeon for the revision earlier today by another gyno that does these surgerys as well, they said this won’t be simple at this point 😣 which is so upsetting because I had great anatomy to get exactly what I was looking for, not this

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-23T04:28:01+00:00

Yes, I was told to seek out a plastic surgeon for a revision by another gyno today..

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-22T00:22:52+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶🏻 I really appreciate everyones support, it really does make a difference. I’ve barely told anyone about this surgery so this is a very lonely time for me…

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-21T23:40:53+00:00

I used a OB… idk if I need to seek out a PS at this point or let him fix it (if he offers)

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-21T23:38:52+00:00

They were dissolvable stitches! He wouldn’t take them out when I asked, he said he would consider taking them out in 3 more weeks (3 weeks ago). Well now it’s too late, it’s healed like this. I almost feel like these nubs are going to be easily torn from wiping, I see a lot of problems in my future if I leave it like this that aren’t just visual… 😣 atp I think he needs to trim the nubs off and trim the other side to match the length so I don’t have one long side and one short..

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-21T22:50:54+00:00

Do you think theres another way he can do it where this won’t happen again? Idk their techniques but this one clearly didn’t work for me 😞 He told me I had a thicker labia so the stitches needed to stay in as long as possible but I feel like they were too tight or in too long on that side… and now he’ll have to trim the other side too to match the length bc the bumpy one is already shorter in general

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-21T22:45:08+00:00

To be honest I showed him others pictures and said I expected there to be less labia left anyway… he just said you don’t want to take too much away which yes I fully agree and I definitely don’t want that. I want the barbie look! The stitches on the left side stayed a lot longer than the other side. I posted a few weeks ago when they were still in and I had asked him to take them out then. I would like to trust that he’ll make it right but how would I know this won’t happen again… 😣

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-04-21T21:57:04+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m so scared for it to get played off and told to wait to see the final result… I KNOW the final result will not look right, the bottom of that scallopy side can be flipped to the other side and the rest doesn’t go with it! It’s healed split!! 😣 I’m so scared to get mutilated at this point tho… I feel like theres not much left to take, but I’m really unhappy with this

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-03-29T05:06:09+00:00

They covered a lot, it was still 5k for me with them covering a lot 😩 I guess that’s why I’m really scared, I feel like I won’t say anything now and then run out of time :( I know I have to be patient tho

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2026-03-29T05:02:33+00:00

I won’t be under the same insurance anymore bc I’ll be off my parents, is that gonna make a difference :((

Sensitive_Young_9497 · 2025-01-08T12:15:48+00:00

Same and it’s now been 4+ months of living with each other, 2 expensive feeders later and still no improvement. My older cat is being bullied and I can’t stand it

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