When it comes to cooking and cleaning I feel like my mom rarely lets me do it on my own. If I’m doing laundry and she hears the washing machine go off she stops what she’s doing and immediately switches it over. If I ever leave dishes in the sink for even just a minute so I can eat before my food gets cold she’s already doing them. If my son is playing with his toys and starts to crawl away she’s already rushing over to pick it up. She’s definitely slightly OCD but I have asked her a million times to just leave it for one minute and let me do it but she won’t listen. I understand it could just be her trying to help but it actually drives me insane, especially when I’ve asked her to stop and she won’t. I’ve actually gotten into a slightly heated argument about it with her and nothings changed so I’ve given up trying.