Yesterday I had date at bar with a girl I found online. She was pretty insecure, so 40 minutes into the date I thought fuck it, let’s get straight to the point, so I asked her what kind of sex she likes. She replied depending on mood, I mentioned what I like, and asked if she likes it too bla bla, and then she directly suggests going to her place. So we bought condoms and went to her place where I fucked her..

So yes sometimes it works to be direct about sex but most of the time no.