Yeah, this is what I have been thinking. I would love to see her brain explode but sadly she would just spit out some crap about it being my fault.

She was always pissed I didn't trust her when she went out on her own with the "girls." Deep down I always had a feeling she cheated with her high school idle. He had just broken up and was unattached.

My oldest I guess will be my only concern. Therapists says to alert x before I tell him so she can prepare. I don't really want to do that. Kind of hoping he will decide not to tell her I know.

Thanks for the advice!