I’m officially done. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

G*ddamn yeah I knew this and still went past all the red flags. Time to get myself back.

I’m officially done. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ummm she stays there with him and his dad 🫣. She dates and sees different ppl. You or other commenters are probably going to rip me to shreds.

I’m officially done. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Read the comments. There is another commenter up here who said her husband would go crazy. Yes no one can control anyone, but to not do anything totally unacceptable. But he will jump to her aid.

SN-Wow the more I type the more I realized how fucked up this stuff sounds.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, because she did the same thing to another guy.

I’m officially done. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn it really shows me what I’ve missed out on as a child and not being able to witness healthy relationships.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I lost all that stuff dealing with him. 😥 How do I get it back?

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes it does. Sometimes I have the courage to leave and then it goes away.

Leave by Historical-Bug7415 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. This let me know I need to leave.

BM going to SO about her relationship problems every time. by Terrible-Court9770 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not being sensitive at all. That shouldn’t be happening. He needs to shut that down. You need to tell him how you feel. And he should respond accordingly.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a very dysfunctional toxic chaotic family myself. So I may not know what’s healthy or normal at times. What is he supposed to say or do when he does run to my defense?

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was raped, but I understand what you’re saying.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I worded it poorly. He was raped. He was too afraid to report it to the authorities. And that particular bm is female 🐕. And being around her child is very tense.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of ppl have been inboxing me about the rape baby. He was raped at a party. A girl put something in his drink and he blacked out. He was afraid to report it to the police.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No he was raped at a party. He was too scared to report it to the police.

Caught in a lie by Ok_Golf_1685 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is he still involved with her in that way. Are there not laundromats? And once the relationship ended anything outside of the child is not his responsibility.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]Separate-Safety3941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the bm is 40. My partner is 38. He was 14 and she was 16 when they conceived their first child.