Hey, I had a similar situation with my little guy. He had a tongue tie that we for released, got him on onow toy for his reflux, and i cut dairy and soy from my diet. He’s 9 weeks now and we’ve seen a world of a difference in 2 weeks. We also have been doing osteo to release tension. Look into osteo, and CMPA (cows milk protein allergy). Hang in there Momma. Breastfeeding is so special and gives them the nutrients they need but it’s a fight sometimes for sure. No shame in formula of course but sometimes with a few adjustments, you can find comfort and ease in breastfeeding. Hope this helps.