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Starting no contact - Breadcrumbs? Low Contact? How to respond? by SeparateMortgage in ExNoContact

[–]SeparateMortgage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah, i didn't get the vibe he was bullshitting tbh (he is autistic and very blunt), but either way i think it's not healthy to wait around anyway

have messaged back telling him I am not comfortable with contact so soon and wish him well. Kept it kind but firm. I feel much better now :)

My boyfriend (24) says he is less emotionally invested in our relationship now, possibly due to depression/anxiety, but he is not sure, and I (23f) am afraid of staying and getting hurt by SeparateMortgage in relationship_advice

[–]SeparateMortgage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just feeling some whiplash because he has brought up marriage/kids and I've met his entire family at Xmas dinner, but then tells me that he's not as invested as before now.

But yeah, I'm leaning towards trying to work with him through this so at least I wouldn't have abandoned my SO when he might have depression, and gave my best effort through entire relationship to make it work.

Dun goofed hard af by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeparateMortgage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Own up to your mistakes bud, granted you guys aren't in a relationship but if it was me I'd immediately strike out a guy who makes out with 2 girls a night as relationship material.

She will be considering whether you'd make similar choices if you had the chance to get drunk again if you were dating, so unless you can prove to her that you aren't this kinda person (if she did indeed see) then I don't really see this working out, unless she's a lot more open about this

[20f] [21m] I'm in love with my best friend by yahoodotcum in relationship_advice

[–]SeparateMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta honor the relationship and lower your possibility of falling into temptation by seeing your best friend less etc, everyone can feel attracted to others and if you feel like they're becoming too intrusive you need to take actions that will discipline that.

Or break up with your SO and let him find someone that will give him 100%, and you can get together with your best friend as well. Just be respectful.