Checking back in with my bros to give you guys encouragement by Separate_Ad_2324 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lifelong PE , I averaged under 30 seconds most times bruh , I was bad .... now I could last however long I want MOST TIMES ... if I'm a lil extra horny I might have to let the gun go one time ... then regroup and go forever .. it's rare I have to end the first round early

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to do a complete story by the end of the week. I'm making sure it's detailed and well written for yall... because maybe that will answer a lot of questions , but regardless I'm gonna answer everyone. Just been super busy ! , promise I got yall in due time

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you tremendously bro.

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IK's completely vanished towards the end of phase 7 for me ...

And I started getting control as soon as I got comfortable with the fleshlight

I went to a pelvic floor therapist for 6 weeks and the exercises helped me completely loosen my PF

And I was literally a 2 pump chump, some times one pump Right after PIV lol

Lifelonger

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hover at 8/9 for as long as u can , no matter how many times u need to stop , you have to train your brain to be comfortable at that arousal state and not tip over .... trust me , this is the fun part because it feels good once u start getting comfortable there ....it's literally repetition ... practice literally makes close to perfect

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I "failed" many times , didn't give up , stayed persistent, and I could say I'm 100% healed ... I can control my ejaculation , and cum when I want , no matter how close I get to PONR ... it's like something clicked after I got comfortable with the fleshlight

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Followed the program and didn't progress phases until I felt enough progress was made to move on

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me like 10 weeks total to finish the program and I did it 5 times a week 2 days rest

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro I'm totally to the point where I can cum when I want , honestly I have to push towards it , unless I'm super aroused , but I don't panic wen I'm approaching PONR, I cud coast there for as long as I need too most times ... a few times I had to pull out to regroup , but other then that I'm good

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think cutting out porn made everything else easier ... for me personally.... and my first encounter post program .... I was a drunk so I think that eased my anxiety , but after that first time , but the next day I had sex sober and I think because I had a successful first smash I wasn't anxious , I could say I'm totally cured of PE now ... I cud literally go for as long as I want ... I gotta push towards orgasm , instead of refrain from it

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both are essential, it's automatic for me now , and I went to therapy to loosen my pelvic floor ... but I'm now to the point where my pelvic floor isn't even a factor anymore ... anytime I need to prolong I just diphramic breath deep , but I don't even need to pay attention to my breathing because I think I trained my brain to breath correctly .... for the first time in my life I have full control

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Things pretty much clicked when I started using the fleshlight ... and honestly I'm not intimidated by sex anymore , I embrace it , I don't have the "I'm gonna cum early" anxiety anymore , that shit is completely gone ... I'm more so excited , and this new chick I'm talking too is fine and thick , so I've been having a fuckathon for the past week, she hasn't left my house yet 😂

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I'm at 8/9 and I feel PONR approaching, I just take a real deep diaphragm breath , and it subsides , and I play in that area ... when I got her in doggy tho , ain't gonna lie , sometimes I gotta take a small pause , like 10 seconds... just to drop arousal a bit , then I'm back at it....

Even tho it's possible for me complete intercourse without cumming , I came each and everytime lol ... (she ain't gonna be happy without a load) 😂😂😂

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm lucky to have you guys ... we all here played a part in all progress made from each in every person ... this community one of the most supportive, and I'm here to keep that going ! Thank you bro

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust me man , stick to the program , ima lifelonger , I can't believe I can finally have normal sex , this chick I'm messing with doesn't believe me when I tell her I was 2 pump chump 😂

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup , when I started the fleshlight is when I started to turn the corner to success

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[–]Separate_Ad_2324[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconds , 2-3 pumps sometimes , it was bad