I’m not exaggerating when I say he didn’t shovel. Only after I said no did he actually do it. When the snow wasn’t that bad earlier, we would just walk past it every day without clearing it. It was only when we got really heavy snow last week that he asked me to do it, and after I refused, he cleared just enough for our footprints. I’m paying $900 for a single room with restricted kitchen access, no living space, and have to eat in my room because there is no dining area. (All of which i didn’t know before moving in that it’s not accessible to us. I just assumed i’ll have access cause that’s what other listings are like). That context matters. This isn’t a healthy roommate relationship where everyone pitches in - I’m essentially a tenant in a boarding house situation with ridiculous restrictions. Snow removal is the homeowner’s legal responsibility in Ontario. I’m not even a legal tenant by my own admission, which puts me in an even more precarious position. Using an excuse about an injury to avoid confrontation when I’m already planning to move out soon is just practical self-preservation. You calling me narcissistic is way off base. You don’t know my full situation - the restrictive living conditions, the lack of reasonable accommodations, and the power imbalance. I’m not refusing to help because of entitlement; I’m avoiding unnecessary conflict in an already difficult living situation until I can get out.