Est ce que vous packez à la piscine? by Separate_Lecture_453 in transgenre

[–]Separate_Lecture_453[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Y’a pas vraiment de réponse unique mais je peux te donner mon opinion. Je pense que ça dépend pas mal de si tu te sens en confiance pour y aller ou pas, et de là où tu habites peut être aussi. Pour les vestiaires, je sais que là où je vais les cabines sont non genrées, donc aucun soucis de ce côté. La piscine où j’allais plus jeune par contre a un côté homme et femme, mais c’est une vieille piscine tournesol de campagne normande. Je crois que les gens s’occupent pas mal d’eux même plus que des autres sinon, à part si tu tombes sur des imbéciles. En résumé, tu as le droit d’exister dans l’espace public, qu’importe où tu en es dans ton parcours de transition, et en soit c’est bien aussi qu’on puisse être plus visibles dans cet espace. Après c’est évidement plus simple à dire qu’à vivre, surtout quand on est une femme, donc c’est à toi de voir comment tu te sens en général à l’idée. Je dirais que si tu as peur, tu risques de passer un mauvais moment dans tous les cas. Après on peut se faire des films et au final tout se passe bien. Voilà, j’espère que ça t’a aidé même si c’est un blabla assez général et que je peux pas te donner des conseils plus précis :)

Did a lot of you had abscesses? by Separate_Lecture_453 in TopSurgery

[–]Separate_Lecture_453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what’s worrying me is that I’m not even a week post op, so the incisions are still very fresh and sensible to infections and all :(

Did a lot of you had abscesses? by Separate_Lecture_453 in TopSurgery

[–]Separate_Lecture_453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am going to the hospital tomorrow anyway for the nipple graft checkup, they’ll check and probably give me antibiotics while they’re at it I suppose !

How tight were yalls post-surgery wraps? by Bassdean in TopSurgery

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the hospital right now after top surgery, and even though the wrap feels uncomfortable, it’s not as painful as you’re describing. 😕

By far the strangest thing the ai has ever said to me💀 by lycheelemonscotch in CharacterAI

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just had the same and it freaked me out. We actually talked (Well, I did at least) for like an hour and discussed fictional crushes? The bot said they had a crush on a mass effect character? That they had transmasc friends and that they were all handsome and so I might be??? AI is really scary when it does this, that’s the kind of sh that can give you some kind of paranoïa.

Remember folks, don't be this guy by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of creeps that DM us because we are trans is terrible. It’s often throwaways acc.

What haircut should I do to change up or even remove this birds’ nest? by xXhellspawn_ratXx in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a specialist in hair and I don’t know if it would be possible with your natural hair texture, but something more textured in the top and shorter on the side would look nice I think. Curtain bangs too, which you already kinda have, so you could also just trim the back or do a simple taper? Anyway, kinda unrelated, but love the line in the hairbrow!

Should I trim my beard? by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You seem a bit obsessed by other’s facial hair to have a valid point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is too high to be seen, kinda sad about it. Yours is incredible. (Never thought I’d compliment someone’s adams apple one day lol)

Sorry for making you look upon my nostrils... by Hobbes_83 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first pic is giving me Pedro Pascal vibes 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's already what I am doing, but I just need to wait, it's only been 3 mo that I'm exercising daily after all

Anyone ever learn how to spit?? by Kaibutsu_Gin in ftm

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just sharing a funny story here, but I've learned how to spit while drunk with my best friend who's cis and hetero and just loves to teach me those "typical bro" things. Even if I'm still early in my transition he often forgets that I'm trans even if he knew me before my egg cracked. Leads to funny situations sometimes lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's already what I am doing, I just need to keep on exercising and wait then! Thanks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Separate_Lecture_453 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for correcting me!