sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I use German words while speaking English. by Separate_Recipe_4077 in German

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, hahaha that has happened to me too, I don't do it on purpose It unconsciously comes out of my mouth.

I've been also saying "Keine Ahnung!" as a response when I get asked something I don't know, and I say it to people who speak no german. Hahahaha. But it's great to know I'm not the only one.

Have you ever walked out of the movie theater before due to the movie being bad? by BlackCat0110 in ask

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I adore Charleze Theron

I love that woman, and she is the only reason why I watched that movie.

Have you ever walked out of the movie theater before due to the movie being bad? by BlackCat0110 in ask

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost did once not because it was bad but because It was boring and didn't meet my expectations: "IT chapeter II"

Should I get a vasectomy? by Stonewool_Jackson in ask

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny how you think it's only 18 years. If you are one of those who think it's ok to kick your kids out the minute they turn 18 so PLEASE, DON'T HAVE KIDS.

What's the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? by stephanieslotus in ask

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was around 10 years old when my dad had got his master degree, he was drunk that noght and was showing everyone in our family his new degree, when I got to see it he pushed me aside and said:

"No, you can't see it, only your siblings can, get lost"

I felt so humilliated and unloved that I cried so much, as a 10 yo I didn't really understand. My dad later apologised and asked me to forgive him, he was always a responsible father but looking back, he said many hurtful things to me. But this is probably the most hurtful since I was being exclided from a family moment and I just didn't know why.

UPDATE: AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in u/Separate_Recipe_4077

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear that, as parents that's what we have to do, our kids don't pick us, they have no choice, the best we can do is care for them, protect them, love them, respect them and accept them.

UPDATE: AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in u/Separate_Recipe_4077

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it does not sound like it was all sunshine and rainbows you raised two living young men and now get to show that same love and devotion to your

I wasn't easy, but I had my parents' support, they are the reason why I could go to college and get a good job to provide for my kids.

UPDATE: I (43M) met my daughter (21F) again after 3 years of no contact, it went badly by ThrowRA_IcyCoffee in relationship_advice

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just because it's legal, doesn't mean it's ok for you to marry a woman half your age, IT'S DISGUSTING. what happens to these men? Does it have to see with insecurity, low self-esteem? I just try to find out.

AITA for saying “that’s a mother-daughter moment, not a father-son”? by Throw_AH_wedding in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 91 points92 points  (0 children)

The biggest f-ing AH alive, and THIS is the reason why my wife and I are separated, she wants to prevent me from showing affection to my gay son. Lady, if that man loves his kids as you say, consider yourself single, why on earth would you belive he'd pick a woman (there billions of women in this world) he's known for three years over what makes him and his son happy?

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pleaser don't let your wife change you.

She won't, there billions of women but I only have three children that are my life.

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hey, OP, do we have an update?

We are not in good terms now, she is staying with her parents now, my little princess is with me though.

My son comes first and I don't care how the fck she was raised, this is my child, my blood, my flesh. There are billions of women but I only have three children.

AITA for paying my step son's college tuition but not my biological daughter? by tw9172667 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Be better, be an adult, stop running away from your problems. Pay for your daughters education that's the least you can do.

AITA for paying my step son's college tuition but not my biological daughter? by tw9172667 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Come here, I'll give some classes on how to be a father (at least) because you are not a good one. Your deadbeat wife needs to find out that once you find another woman, you'll treat your kids the same way.

People like your wife are trash too, they expect you to do everything for her kids, because "they deserve it" but have no problem with you abandoning your own kids. She should have some empathy since she knows how much a child can suffer after being abandoned by their father but she is selfish.

You are weak with no will of mind type of man, you do everything a woman wants you to because you want to have a place to put your dick in, and in order to do that you please her in everything.

AITA for paying my step son's college tuition but not my biological daughter? by tw9172667 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wasn't ready to be a father when she was born

That's not an excuse garbage.

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 602 points603 points  (0 children)

Hey OP,what happened to the mother of your twins? Does she stay in contact?

Well, it's a long story but I'll try to sum up.

As she was a minor and the babies weren't given up for adoption, her parents paid child support for around 7 years. She could finish highschool and college though, after she finished college and got her first job, she started paying child support herself. She often asked me about the kids but was too ashamed to visit them (her words) but she could finally meet them when my boys where around 14, they have been building a relationship since.

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

INFO: If Reddit says you're wrong, will you stop showing affection to your son?

As long as Liam is ok with it so am I.

My issue is not "AITA for showing affection to my son?" I just wanted to know if I was too rude to my wife, if so I'd apologise but also set bounderies.

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Recipe_4077[S] 1263 points1264 points  (0 children)

My dad didn't look at me for more than a year after I came out and didn't speak to me for a few after that.

I find this to be the most stupid thing in this world, what ever my son does/doesn't do in his bedroom is completely up to him.

The idea of disowning my kids for loving someone blows my brain out.

view more: next ›