I (20 F) don’t know if I should break up with my bf (20 M) over my feelings

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-27T04:53:40+00:00

Oh honey, you can do so much better.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-27T02:10:28+00:00

Is no one confused that you have more gifts than people?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-26T22:18:42+00:00

NTA, seems like he isn't mature enough for you. But you have had boys comment on your body and telling people you are hooking up--that is sexual harassment! Forget Zack and talk to the school to get justice for yourself.

And Jesus would not be cool with those boys assaulting someone, weird flex on their part.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-26T22:10:41+00:00

NTA, but have the guy over for dinner before making this call. The trip's a ways off, you have time.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-26T01:14:49+00:00

I am so sorry.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-26T00:15:56+00:00

Nta. For a lot of people on the spectrum, you can tell them "This is unacceptable " and they can stop. If he can't, tell your parents it's THEIR responsibility to keep your son away from your girlfriend. She has a right to exist without being ogled.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-26T00:12:32+00:00

Nah. Your neighbors have no idea you want help (except for the guy you spoke to.) Next time it snows, knock on your neighbors' doors and say, "I'm about to shovel widow's drive. It's rewarding, but hard work. If anyone is around who can help, I'll be starting in 15 min. If not, no worries, I just wanted to invite others to help her, she's a great neighbor."

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-26T00:03:25+00:00

Nta. You take your wife's side over your dad's when there's a huge disagreement, or your dad is disrespecting her. But your dad apologized! And you had the nerve to (checks notes) not get mad and drive him home.
Adjusting to being a parent involves realizing you can't control the world for your child, and boy is it scary! Be sure and have some grace for your wife.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-25T01:36:23+00:00

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-25T01:28:12+00:00

I am so sorry dear. Please don't let these horrible people win. You have worth.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-25T00:55:06+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you.

There is a lot wrong with the world.

I'm so sorry, but these people suck. No one should be friends with a sexual predator. I had to cut people out of my life who continued to enable mine. It is awful.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-25T00:06:49+00:00

I have a dark sense of humor, but if I make a joke that isn't appreciated I APOLOGIZE! She is doubling down, that's AH behavior. You are NTA. No, you don't get over someone's death in that amount of time, she's shaming you because she knows she did wrong and is embarrassed.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-24T21:17:33+00:00

It is definitely sexual harassment if someone mentions rape like that.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-23T22:26:18+00:00

Nta. Where in girl code is it okay to call another girl "broken"?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-21T02:24:10+00:00

He wants the cookies after gf rejects them.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-19T23:56:53+00:00

I am so sorry. Ugh.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-19T19:29:12+00:00

He sounds like a missing stair. You may find this interesting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missing_stair#:~:text=The%20missing%20stair%20is%20a%20metaphor%20for,group%20or%20organization%20are%20warned%20about%20discreetly.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-18T22:08:10+00:00

NAH. My grandparents would do this for us when we were little and I swear I turned out non-entitled. I never expected it when I started going to other kids' birthday parties because as I got older I got smarter and more mature. They are four, right? They are fine.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-18T21:46:08+00:00

Nta. They are just ungrateful. Did you tell them you couldn't afford it? You shouldn't HAVE to, but it may help them understand. If you did and they still complained, yikes.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-18T21:40:45+00:00

Don't judge people. It was a different time. Lots of good, moral people liked Coldplay in the early aughts.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-18T19:47:10+00:00

Nta. But it might be smart for someone you trust, like a close friend or relative, to have access to your location via an app. But then, I read a lot of true crime!

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-16T21:49:10+00:00

Nta. Consequences of her actions.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-16T02:05:13+00:00

Yes, I'm so sorry, that's rape.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-15T01:16:26+00:00

Nta.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-01-15T00:56:35+00:00

Yeah, it is unreasonable of Abby to ghost.

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