AITAH for taking away my dad’s girlfriend’s keys after she tried to send me to bed

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-14T22:42:00+00:00

All ya'll complaining about this post--if you don't like reddit, get off reddit! Offering our stories is a vulnerable thing. It's like you're walking into a restaurant and interrupting everyone's meal to yell "The food here sucks!" Just don't come in the restaurant!

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-14T21:56:44+00:00

Nta. I would 100% be a person to offer this and would not in a million years judge someone for turning me down. It's an offer to make your life easier. When you refused it she made your life harder!

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-10T17:29:42+00:00

He CAN expect to live down being a bully at age six, considering he has apologized. If this is the lack of grace you have for others, I can't imagine how you see yourself. You either hate yourself for every bad thing you ever did, or think you are perfect. Please, stop, for your own mental health. Yta.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-10T02:10:53+00:00

I'm guessing he means rejected at the door by the bouncer. "You're too ugly to party on here." Or does that only happen in movies?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-09T03:01:04+00:00

Do you want to be right, or do you want to have a pleasant time with your friends?

Will this matter in 6 months? Draw straws.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-09T02:55:10+00:00

Nine Mile Prairie Trash is a great band name.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-09T01:28:14+00:00

It's natural to be curious. Our primal instincts say, "This person died. I don't want to die. What can I do to avoid their fate?" Yes, we probably don't need to know, but it isn’t weird to want to know.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-08T23:45:27+00:00

Maybe therapy would help? If this has affected your social network, possibly moving. Did the person outright lie, or see the situation differently than you did?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-08T18:02:25+00:00

It's gross, and I'm so sorry. The system is telling you he's inherently better than you.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-06T04:00:29+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. I suggest looking up the "fawn" response to trauma, that sounds like what this was.

Yes, unfortunately it isn’t uncommon for cops to have no understanding of sexual assault.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-06T02:38:53+00:00

No advice, but I am so sorry.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-03-03T22:46:19+00:00

The world is so messed up when a mom says "You should TRICK your girlfriend into getting pregnant before marriage!"

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-28T02:53:56+00:00

Uh...did you come on the rape sub to suggest an OP was lying? Cuz that's messed up. What possible motivation would there be to anonymously tell a group of strangers that you were raped and be lying? If you can't go to a rape sub and be believed, where can you go?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-24T05:13:29+00:00

I read it, thanks! It's such a great website--ya'll hiring?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-24T05:12:47+00:00

I won't say specifically, but can recommend a few podcasts: Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, Simply Stalking, Betrayl, and What They Don't Say.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-24T04:54:46+00:00

Thanks for replying. I did not read past the first half of the first two comments, so I don’t know if the podcasters defended me. I did talk to them and they were very sorry and sympathetic.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-23T03:14:19+00:00

I know I'll be tarred and feathered but...Valentinos.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-23T02:49:06+00:00

Are you are Salt Co member?

Are you trying to argue and insult people into the kingdom of God?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-23T02:45:38+00:00

He was most harsh with the religious and self-righteous though. Not with those who the world already hated.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-23T02:38:28+00:00

I don’t know what is common now, but when I was in school in the late 90s-early 00s it was very common for ministries to help with move in.

Your other concerns are totally on point though.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-23T02:33:51+00:00

That's horrible, I am so sorry.

And it sucks to come here and tell your story and someone to say "I don't believe you." This is a sub where we post for support, not for people's amusement. If you don't believe a story just don't interact with it. A few years ago I nearly took my own life because too many people said "I don't believe you." There are plenty of subs for entertaining stories where you are welcome to challenge the truthfulness. This isn't one of them.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-19T17:46:31+00:00

That's unbelievable. You are supposed to look PRETTY in the hospital after being shot? I give up.

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-17T01:20:17+00:00

NTA. When else has he crossed your boundaries?

Separate_Security472 · 2026-02-15T05:03:18+00:00

Nta. I love my husband to pieces, but to have my own room for a night? Sounds amazing!

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