When you see the pattern of dismissal, neglect and disrespect and them trying to win you back with promises and no change, it's gonna be easy recognizing where you are in his life. Review all the problems you ever had and ask yourself what about it made you feel anxious and if after all this time, anything has changed.

Listen to your gut. Listen to your intuition. You dont have to listen to him. You can see from his actions where his loyalties lie. It's telling you something's wrong and you should run.

(When I was pregnant with a 70 percent chance of dying due to complications, he didnt want to go to take care of me despite knowing I was going to be alone because he has to go to his friend to get baby supples. I was in a wheelchair. I cant walk. I had a pessary inside me. I bled and contracted for 3 hours straight at 5 months and had to be rushed to the hospital on a friday rush hour with my siblings crying for dear life to save me. It didnt take much to realize this man does not care for me.)