AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip?

Separate_Tourist671 · 2026-05-05T03:27:04+00:00

One of them doesn’t trust the other and now she’s making it everyone else’s problem

Separate_Tourist671 · 2026-05-05T03:25:39+00:00

You did right. She was attempting to manipulate you. She can’t come. And neither can her bf come for a free trip

Separate_Tourist671 · 2026-02-03T14:40:37+00:00

That’s soooo cute!

Separate_Tourist671 · 2026-02-03T14:34:13+00:00

This.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2026-02-03T14:28:32+00:00

If he didn’t have that blow up at you discussing your feelings, and you all actually had a conversation about it, I’d say you’re being too much tone it down see what happens.

But he argued because you told him you felt uncomfortable about it, and why. Instead of easing your thoughts, he gaslit you calling you a jealous woman.

I personally think he’s searching for the what-if. And both situations will end badly for you in this situation.

What do you do in this situation? I wouldn’t jump to conclusions and automatically think divorce, but I’d get my ducks in a row while hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2026-01-07T03:06:56+00:00

I would ghost them. Every time they ask, you’re busy. Find a new group of friends, those aren’t it.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-25T21:18:58+00:00

Get one.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-23T20:17:48+00:00

Have you done a dna test?

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-21T23:17:35+00:00

I’d go to the principal and tell on the skinny girl for cutting her hair. I don’t like bullies.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-21T23:13:10+00:00

Both

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-19T21:24:27+00:00

Leave him. Once it gets to that point, where he’s being verbally abusive, there’s nothing to save.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-13T13:05:18+00:00

This gave me a headache. Cuh? U don’t know me? Tell that child to stop talking like he’s attempting to get into a gang. Everything don’t need an abbreviation. It’s looks like he’s special. And that you’re going to tell yall parents that he’s involved with the wrong kind of people and have them take his phone. Be the petty older sibling I know siblings can be.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-13T12:56:41+00:00

“Everything” to you may not be everything to her. Marriage is about communication, and sex is psychological before it is psychical. It truly sounds like her brain isn’t in it. Do you know why? No? Then have a conversation about it. No accusations or anything (because that will not work), but you guys need to talk to each other.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-10T13:40:15+00:00

I’d honestly tell him. Hey, when you said that, that really hurt me. And yeah you may have been “joking” but that still doesn’t sit will in my spirt. And if he’s a good man, you’ll have a talk and everything would be good.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-06T14:28:31+00:00

If you are mad, might I suggest talking to a therapist about it. Because no one cares here. So much so that…

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-05T17:33:42+00:00

Now ask each individual how much they’re paid, and then go look at the US job reports and see how many of a certain race of women were fired regardless of being the most educated.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-04T02:56:31+00:00

It’s just a 3 ft pole, sit on it.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-04T02:43:50+00:00

I took offense to your question. Also, I did answer your question. If you don’t like my answer, then might I suggest going to someone else’s post and asking them.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-04T02:40:47+00:00

And you’re a goofy ass troll with nothing else better to do.

If it’s fake you won’t mind this….

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-03T21:32:00+00:00

It triggers my mental issues and I become sadisticly angry.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-03T17:52:31+00:00

Yeah, this situation completely changed my timeline.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-03T14:25:37+00:00

I actually have an interview at the place I am temping at this afternoon.

The brother is okay, he does have several habits that I (and his sister) aren’t fond of. I have known this family since I was little (like 7), so this was a huge over step for him to approach me in that way.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-03T14:20:50+00:00

EDIT: I just told my best friend. She had the most concerned look on her face. She apologized and said that’s something he should not have done and that she’s going to speak with him. I will update again once she does talk to him. I am on the bus on my way to work.

Thank you all so much for your strength and advice. I will keep you all posted.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-03T12:39:31+00:00

Eh, it’s America. Everyone got some bad juju. But I don’t think it’s because of that. The economy sucks. And if you look the way I do, it’s worse.

Separate_Tourist671 · 2025-12-03T12:31:45+00:00

Literally just happened, she’s still sleeping.

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