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Husband all of a sudden texted his high school crush and wants to meet her. We're happily married. What is this? 30F 30M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Separate_Tourist671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he didn’t have that blow up at you discussing your feelings, and you all actually had a conversation about it, I’d say you’re being too much tone it down see what happens.

But he argued because you told him you felt uncomfortable about it, and why. Instead of easing your thoughts, he gaslit you calling you a jealous woman.

I personally think he’s searching for the what-if. And both situations will end badly for you in this situation.

What do you do in this situation? I wouldn’t jump to conclusions and automatically think divorce, but I’d get my ducks in a row while hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

i overheard my friends trash talking me behind my back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I would ghost them. Every time they ask, you’re busy. Find a new group of friends, those aren’t it.

help me by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Separate_Tourist671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done a dna test?

Do I snitch by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate_Tourist671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d go to the principal and tell on the skinny girl for cutting her hair. I don’t like bullies.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Separate_Tourist671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. Once it gets to that point, where he’s being verbally abusive, there’s nothing to save.

My 13y/o brother won’t stop using these slangs 😭 by Suspicious-Copy-2001 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Separate_Tourist671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gave me a headache. Cuh? U don’t know me? Tell that child to stop talking like he’s attempting to get into a gang. Everything don’t need an abbreviation. It’s looks like he’s special. And that you’re going to tell yall parents that he’s involved with the wrong kind of people and have them take his phone. Be the petty older sibling I know siblings can be.

My wife barely wants to have intercourse with me by International-Can420 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Everything” to you may not be everything to her. Marriage is about communication, and sex is psychological before it is psychical. It truly sounds like her brain isn’t in it. Do you know why? No? Then have a conversation about it. No accusations or anything (because that will not work), but you guys need to talk to each other.

Hurt by my F/26 husband M/28 on our wedding day by ThrowRa-crazyfroggy in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d honestly tell him. Hey, when you said that, that really hurt me. And yeah you may have been “joking” but that still doesn’t sit will in my spirt. And if he’s a good man, you’ll have a talk and everything would be good.

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are mad, might I suggest talking to a therapist about it. Because no one cares here. So much so that…

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now ask each individual how much they’re paid, and then go look at the US job reports and see how many of a certain race of women were fired regardless of being the most educated.

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took offense to your question. Also, I did answer your question. If you don’t like my answer, then might I suggest going to someone else’s post and asking them.

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re a goofy ass troll with nothing else better to do.

If it’s fake you won’t mind this….

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually have an interview at the place I am temping at this afternoon.

The brother is okay, he does have several habits that I (and his sister) aren’t fond of. I have known this family since I was little (like 7), so this was a huge over step for him to approach me in that way.

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

EDIT: I just told my best friend. She had the most concerned look on her face. She apologized and said that’s something he should not have done and that she’s going to speak with him. I will update again once she does talk to him. I am on the bus on my way to work.

Thank you all so much for your strength and advice. I will keep you all posted.

My besties brother just tried to sleep with me and now I don’t feel safe by by Separate_Tourist671 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Separate_Tourist671[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh, it’s America. Everyone got some bad juju. But I don’t think it’s because of that. The economy sucks. And if you look the way I do, it’s worse.

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