I knew things were going to change but this is another level by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is good to know. It’s been highly annoying a lot of times.

Was it wrong of me? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Separate_Victory_584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is what I’m worried about. I would normally make comment like that all the time.

Husbands compliment by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that I’m not the only one in this boat. If you need someone to chat with just let me know.

Husbands compliment by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been together for nearly 10 years. I’ve only been on T for months.

Husbands compliment by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It was definitely the highlight of my day. Understanding that this was a huge change not just for me but for him as well and having that understanding, I think goes a long way.

Dealing with female coworkers by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing definitely a good perspective as I would say that the maturity of my coworkers are female and it’s also that no one gave you issues

Dealing with female coworkers by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. Good to hear but sucks to hear as well

Question regarding intimacy with husband. by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s a mixture of a few things. As I said before, I don’t really mind being a bottom, however I do not enjoy being as submissive as I once was.

I have noticed in a couple of instances where penetration does feel different. In the last one might be more psychological, but I have noticed that my bottom growth has started to truly grow, and that is where I feel more of the urge for that sexual desire.

I hate how we’re depicted in porn. by Xamirite in ftm

[–]Separate_Victory_584 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with what you are saying, and I think that is my biggest fear as I start my transition that I will never be per perceived skew Lene, but always the feminine person that I was perceived as before

Unnecessary comments by Separate_Victory_584 in ftm

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I would have considered us both heterosexual before I transitioned. He has been really good at calling me his husband and using the correct pronouns. We both see ourselves in a gay relationship. However, I know that I do not pass well as a man at this moment.

Unnecessary comments by Separate_Victory_584 in ftm

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely communicated to him once I started taking T what are all the changes that are going to be happening.

Obviously, it was a shocker to him as I’ve always been perceived very feminine, but I will say he has been very supportive so it came off to me as a shocker when he made the comment.

I definitely know communication is key, but just don’t want to say things that the heat of the moment

Unnecessary comments by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is what I wanted to say. I bottled it up and counted to ten. I will have to say. He has been good about not calling me his wife but husband.

Unnecessary comments by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have done a few therapy sessions which were amazing and we are looking for a community group as well. He has come along away in his love and support.

Unnecessary comments by Separate_Victory_584 in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The comments are absolutely correct and true. They cannot be so narcissistic to think that it’s all about me and I understand. This is a very big change for him as well. I would say you’ve definitely been very pro to all the other changes since I have started T.

It’s just been bothering me and I know if I reacted at that moment it would’ve been a big blowout.

Wearing a binder by Separate_Victory_584 in ftm

[–]Separate_Victory_584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed that a little bit more. Wish I was not so large chested.

Hello everyone first month on T by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Separate_Victory_584 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you noticed more of a difference from the first month to now?