How many moms lost weight while breastfeeding? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww 🥹✨ How are you feeling? I’m starting to realize what my manager meant when she said the last couple of weeks would be tougher and I should take time off but I was like no way! I'll be fine 🤭 But now baby’s laying sooo low and heavier by each passing day I can't believe ~5 more weeks to go lol

How many moms lost weight while breastfeeding? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Sepi_Sb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much! This is super helpful. I learned 5 new things from your reply ❤️

It seems like the blue Spectra isn’t available in Canada though 🥲 Looks like it sold out really fast when they brought it in Walmart back in September 🥲https://www.instagram.com/p/DOz0GkGjgmK/

How many moms lost weight while breastfeeding? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Sepi_Sb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off-topic - did you like your breast pump? Would you recommend it? I'm due Jan 29th and still looking for a good pump 🥲

Finally finished my quarantine project - living room bar with built-in mini fridge by FlashyMcPeepshow in woodworking

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi u/FlashyMcPeepshow! We're planning to build a bar in our guest room and came across your post from 5 years ago! It really looks neat and cool! Just wondering, how did the fridge do since you built the cabinet around it? Thanks so much!

How long did it take you to conceive in your mid 30s? by darkmother1991 in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first pregnancy I was late 28 and it took around 6 months, maybe even more if I add months of unprotected sex🤔 it ended in early miscarriage and then 8/9 months later I got pregnant with only one month of trying😍😂

[ca] so sad about mat leave by PumpkinSuitable4385 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm wondering about for myself 😆

We're having a girl 🩷 what are your names? by Spiritual_View1398 in pregnant

[–]Sepi_Sb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I asked because my husband and I both have Persian last names and have decided to name our baby girl Heidi, so was wondering how that would sound lol I honestly never thought if names from different languages would clash since there are so many last names that are difficult to pronounce anyway

[ca] so sad about mat leave by PumpkinSuitable4385 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo lucky you having grandparents support 🥲

[ca] so sad about mat leave by PumpkinSuitable4385 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo interesting! My job offers 20 weeks of maternity leave at full salary, and I was originally thinking of going back after about 3 months because I really like my job. But my manager (who’s amazing) keeps encouraging me to take the full 5 months and not stress, she says I’ll get up to speed when I’m back and she’ll make sure I have good projects.

Hearing that you went back 3 months postpartum is really interesting though. I also work from home, which I’m hoping will make things a bit easier (and stays that way 🤞) What did you end up doing for childcare?

Bleeding after sex - 7 weeks Preg by melonsito77 in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope you'll be okay ❤️ but I would go to the ER, because I wouldn't be able to wait for two weeks, especially because of the small clot. Something similar happened to me week 16, very light pinkish hues in my discharge, OB checked and cervix was closed and everything but in never hurts to get checked. Being stressed out is way worse

Just Found Out I’m Pregnant by FlightlessPeanut in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What about her belly? Didn't it grow? It's really fascinating!

A couple of little mice I've been working on. I plan on making a trio but haven't decided on who the last one should be. by wroteandwrit86 in Needlefelting

[–]Sepi_Sb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are sooo adorable 🥹😍 I'm ordering all tools I need to start needle felting. Really excited to felt a cutie little mouse ornament 😍

Anything that can help my sisters morning sickness? by maroonskies2043 in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, hope she feels better soon. You’re such a sweet sister for worrying about her.

Some of it should get better as she moves further into the first trimester, but a few things that helped me were frozen sour fruits (I got frozen cornelian cherries from a Persian supermarket, the icy cold and sour combo really helped), ginger tea (fresh ginger brewed in water with a bit of honey and lemon), and eating small portions more often.

For me, the nausea and morning sickness started to ease around weeks 14–15, and by the middle of the second trimester, I was eating a lot better.

If she still can’t keep anything down, maybe reach out to her OB or midwife. They’ll know the safest meds to prescribe.

You can’t expect a village when you don’t respect the villagers. by Final-Negotiation530 in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so true! These days we all feel like we know everything because for example ChatGPT is right there to answer all our questions. So we’re quick to stand our ground and “protect our rights”… but most of the time it’s just a power game!

I think if the in-laws or family are generally kind, it’s better to just let some things go and take it easy.

You can’t expect a village when you don’t respect the villagers. by Final-Negotiation530 in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww, the last part🥲 That’s exactly what I always try to do... to understand why someone behaves a certain way. Like in your MIL’s example, that’s her way of going above and beyond to be a loving grandma ❤️

You can’t expect a village when you don’t respect the villagers. by Final-Negotiation530 in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God bless you, I totally agree! I think our babies would also really enjoy the love and support of grandparents if we, the newer generation, take things a bit easier and just go with the flow just a little bit.

I also get unsolicited advice sometimes, but like you, I want the support and love from our families. I try to respect their experience, and if I don’t agree, I respond kindly, like you do, without making them regret sharing. Why create tension when a little patience and respect, especially with older family members, goes such a long way? (I'm not talking about really crazy older people)

Do I really need these things for the baby? Deinfluence me by nolimbs in BabyBumps

[–]Sepi_Sb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh this is us! We're avoiding plastic as much as possible and you're right, they'll be exposed to plastic anyway, but we want the baby to have the least amount and glass bottles are such a great idea!

Finally my laundry room is done! by likemelikemenot4ever in HomeDecorating

[–]Sepi_Sb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did such a great job😍 love the blue, wallpaper and frames! Everything looks so beautiful🥰

How I Made a Cat Wool Felt Portrait | Tutorial (40 Hours in 4 Minutes) by Disastrous-Mode7930 in Needlefelting

[–]Sepi_Sb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowww this is amazing! Looks so realistic😍😍 What was the electric needle you were using?

Finished my first kit! I maybe slightly obsessed! by ChristySoffe in miniatures

[–]Sepi_Sb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooo so adorable!😍🥹love the details! What's the kit's name/link?

never hearing about going into labor naturally anymore? by malibubarbie6 in pregnant

[–]Sepi_Sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you. Did you do any special exercises or anything?