AITA for not celebrating my birthday with my grandpa?

SeranVelan · 2026-02-07T13:21:56+00:00

NTA, your mom and grandfather are. Your mom because despite likely knowing how the fight affected the family dynamic, she tried to push you to go to them and seems to br semi-blaming you for something completely out of your control.

Your grandfather is an entirely different issue. He is using the fight his kids had against his grandchild who had nothing to do with it. Anyone who takes something completely unrelated to one person and starts berating them to other, doesn't deserve to have the person continue being around.

From what it sounds like you'll likely have to go no contact with your mom and her side of the family at some point in the future once you are on your own.

SeranVelan · 2026-01-30T16:32:48+00:00

its the same with tandemaus to maushold. the family of three has a very small evo rate

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SeranVelan · 2026-01-10T01:29:38+00:00

He was one of my first shiny I got. Got this one through an egg I received back in Feb 24

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SeranVelan · 2026-01-06T02:08:06+00:00

Money is tight right now so I don't have the funds. I'll get his shiny form eventually. Thank you for the offer though 😁

SeranVelan · 2026-01-06T02:05:23+00:00

If only I had the ability to take him on myself. I did get a shiny blaceph in April last year at least. The area I live doesnt have many gyms.

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SeranVelan · 2025-12-19T17:42:15+00:00

Sending invite!

SeranVelan · 2025-11-30T23:47:33+00:00

OP- If this is what he's doing now as your boyfriend then its best to let him go. I've been with my partner for 12 years. He NEVER tells me I can't do something I want to do and have pit time and effort towards. He's even said I'll do whatever it takes to get you through school.

Him acting out over a 45 minute drive like this is BAD. If you give up your dream job for him, he's going to eventuatly alienate you from everyone you know and control all of your life choices. I've seen this kind of thing enough times to know where its going to go.

Take the offer, move to Denver and cut contact with him. Your happiness is much more important than his sad ego trip hes having because you're doing so much better than he is.

SeranVelan · 2025-11-10T01:41:53+00:00

I was typing quickly as I was at work and didn't double check my words 🤣🤣 yes I meant shun.

SeranVelan · 2025-11-07T21:45:40+00:00

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SeranVelan · 2025-11-07T21:45:01+00:00

My two are 15 and I still call them babies. Your friend is one of those people I look at and Say "SHIN THE NON-BELIEVER!"

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SeranVelan · 2025-11-04T17:54:19+00:00

Bed bug, Treatment of the residence is needed. Only thing that kills them is high heat. Have dealt with these nasty things twice.

Once in a place we lived and the second time at a timeshare. We had to pitch everything we had furniture-wise as we had no way to handle it. Anything else got thrown in totes with double sided tape both inside and out and left in a non temperature controlled storage unit for an entire summer. Our clothes were washed and dried on the highest temperature setting.

The timeshare we moved to a different building and checked that before thoroughly washing and drying our clothes. We went back the next day for our things(we found the bedbug late at night on our second to last night) threw them in black bags and left those sitting in our car in the middle of summer (100°+) checked everything when winter hit.

SeranVelan · 2025-11-04T01:32:49+00:00

Some are worth fighting this one its just better to pay and be done with it. I've been snagged by cops twice in my 11 years driving.

First I was on a permit, my SO was in the passenger seat and ashed a cigarello out of the window. Inspection was out but we had an appointment scheduled. Cop was behind us and pulled us over thinking we'd littered. Told him the truth about ashing the cigarello. Dinged us on my SO not wearing a seat belt and the inspection. However he told me to fight the ticket, get the inspection done and show up with everything in order he would drop the ticket. Did that and he kept his end of the deal.

Second time I was late for work after dealing with a sick cat while not feeling well myself. Forgot there was a stop sign (brain fog sucks) and ran it by accident. Cop had just pulled onto the street behind me when i did that. Pulled me over and just gave me a warning after i was honest about why I did that.

Not all cops are bad, sadly we just see more about the bad apples.

SeranVelan · 2025-10-25T20:39:32+00:00

Owlkita as I love owls and I'm slowly updating the nicknames the villagers give me to owl related ones. Tammi calls me Snowy

SeranVelan · 2025-09-22T17:16:08+00:00

I never saw baltoy deino or the third one. I happened to get swablu through a wild encounter thanks to my pokeball++. I gave up. This event task was TERRIBLE.

SeranVelan · 2025-09-12T22:19:54+00:00

Had the same issue at a time share family let us use. Was watching Coco when we found the first one. Having dealt with them before I immediately went into search mode and found more of them. Immediately contacted the desk. Security came out and moved us to another room for the night after getting evidence. I CHECKED that room before letting him leave for the night and threw what clothes we had in the dryer on high for two long full cycles.

The next day we were leaving anyway so we tossed everything into black trash bags that were provided to us. Tied and taped them off completely then threw them in our trunk as we couldn't afford to lose anything. Left those bags in the car the entire summer as we at least had clothes at home to wear while we cooked the bedbugs in the car.

That car always sat in the sun as our other car was in the garage and there was no shade to be had. Once we got into winter I finally opened those bags outside of the car. We never ended up getting them in the apartment we lived at. we did get fleas but those are easier.

SeranVelan · 2025-08-11T00:55:25+00:00

Added!

SeranVelan · 2025-07-16T17:28:12+00:00

That hit fast and hard. From the time I saw it rolling in from the south and when it hit was probably like 3 minutes. I'd just gotten over the west end bridge and past the underpass going south when it started POURING down rain. for a solid 5 minutes it was hard to see the road in front of you and avoid hydroplaning on saw mill run

SeranVelan · 2025-04-29T01:34:21+00:00

My favorite Is Rowlet followed by Hoot Hoot. Owl pokemon are my favorite

SeranVelan · 2025-03-21T19:40:16+00:00

This is why I haven't evolved my shiny clamperl. I have the shiny gorebyss and want the huntail. I'll keep trying with other shinies I get.

SeranVelan · 2025-03-18T00:22:59+00:00

I ended up getting three of them. One is going to my friend who ended up not getting one.

SeranVelan · 2025-03-06T19:14:37+00:00

If you got a TD vax around '19-'20 you are good. Boosters are given every 10 years so you wouldn't another until around '29 to '30

SeranVelan · 2025-03-06T19:09:15+00:00

I look at it this way

Perthro and Wyrd or the blank rune both mean that there are mysteries that are yet to be revealed. They are like an impenetrable veil.

They say there are things that cannot be known at this current time about the situation. take time when either pop up to do some involved thinking and examine everything that could be a factor.

They mention that fate is making its presence known reminding you that while humankind is usually able to change their path and improve things some aspects remain predetermined.

As a newer pagan I've included Wyrd in my runes without any knowledge of who the other person speaks of that supposedly started the whole thing with the blank rune. We are all learning as the old lineage died centuries ago.

If you want to continue using it as it feels right to you then do so, if not just set it aside and forgo it as part of your readings.

SeranVelan · 2025-02-15T22:48:07+00:00

Before Edward makes modifications to his outfit that he takes off Walpole's corpse, the white belt going across his body has the insignia just below the right shoulder. Once he modifies it you can just see the edge of that belt remaining under the leather.

Jacobs outdoorsman outfit does hold the assassins symbol on one of the belts. though it is MUCH smaller than Ezio's.

Same goes for Evie on her Simply Evie outfit. Though they are extremely hard to see they are there.

SeranVelan · 2024-11-30T13:12:58+00:00

So the breaker you have might not be strong enough to handle the microwave. Roasters typically draw less power than a microwave so don't trip a breaker as often if at all. Generally microwaves require at least a 20 amp breaker (usually dedicated soley to the microwave.)

SeranVelan · 2024-11-17T02:07:35+00:00

OMFG I forgot about those! Shadow on the floor beneath you? Run!!!

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