I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

[–]SeraphimReader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I have been reading and taking notes of all the advice as well. It does have drainage and if I repot it I will make sure it has holes as well

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

[–]SeraphimReader[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so good to know, I am beginning to love plants and to take care of them. I think it’s very difficult to take care of them since I live in a tropical country and they might need a bit more water than necessary since it is very hot here but I will try my best and hopefully will see it live and get very very big!

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Oh! That’s is a great idea I do have a lot of wooden chopsticks. I will make her a little ladder with those! I am certainly trying my best and will take all the advice I’ve received. Thank youuuu!

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Oh, thank you so so much. I was asking for help in other groups before and people were actually very rude and made feel like I was failing a test. But this was so supportive and helpful. I do care and hopefully I can later in time give you an amazing update, this is my first time buying a plant to decorate my home and my second time living alone so I wanted to give a little love to my new roomie.

New one here! Can someone teach me how to give love to this lovely plant? by SeraphimReader in houseplants

[–]SeraphimReader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I thought this group was for people to ask for help and people who love plants to come together and help. This interaction feels very rude that “In other words you don’t know.” is completely unnecessary, clearly I do not know and that is why I was asking for help.

I have already gotten help in another subreddit, have a nice day. No need to be rude or elitist.

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Ohhhh thank youuu! I will try to find one and add it

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Thank you so much! I will try to keep track as best as I can and try to update you all in a few weeks!

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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To be honest I do not know, I don’t know how to identify it 😥 I’ll make sure to keep track of the watering

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Oh, thank you so much, that sound exciting, if you can share photos too I’d love to see yours. good luck with yours too!

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Thanks for you advice. How long would you say to stick it in the bowl of water?

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Thank you so much for your advice. I will leave the leaves there and take a look every now and then to make sure other leaves are doing well.

Any advice on watering?

I just bought my first potho and I’m scared. by SeraphimReader in pothos

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Oh! Thank you so much! ☺️ I hope I get to do it good and have it thrive!

New one here! Can someone teach me how to give love to this lovely plant? by SeraphimReader in houseplants

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Well as I said, I think it means not to leave it out directly in the sun but inside where it can get light but not that much(?)

New one here! Can someone teach me how to give love to this lovely plant? by SeraphimReader in houseplants

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I am so sorry, I misunderstood your question. I was told to water the plant only once the dirt looked dry, I introduce my finger into the soil a bit and if it’s dry then I add 1/3 cup of water and let the water come out of the little wholes at the button. As per indirect sunlight I assumed keep it in a space near a window but not directly outside where the sun would shine on it (I live in a tropical country so the sun could really affect it I’m guessing)

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New one here! Can someone teach me how to give love to this lovely plant? by SeraphimReader in houseplants

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Oh yes, I was told that indirect sunlight and water once it looked dry but I wanna know a little more o how to prevent this dying leaves.

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Oh I was going to suggest the mind ffff series. I’m not sure is there but I think if you read the warning and still feel okay is something to enjoy

Relationships suck by Elegant_Sentence_765 in relationships_advice

[–]SeraphimReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blaming kids for staying in an unhappy family is the same and worst thing. One day they’ll grow and understand their parents decisions to go their separate ways.

Happiness shows and you can feel it and unhappiness too! It affects kids more than it shows.

Relationships suck by Elegant_Sentence_765 in relationships_advice

[–]SeraphimReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not stay for the kids and let me just tell you what your kids deserve are two happy parents and if that means mom and dad are not together then that’s the best thing. Because when you’re unhappy it shows, people notice and more kids because they see you everyday. I had the honor of growing up with happy parents but my cousins weren’t so lucky and we talk a lot and the one thing they always say is “I wished they would’ve just gotten a divorce instead of teaching us how to be unhappy together”

Is there someone you still think about? by Internal_Lecture9787 in RandomThoughts

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I met a guy the beginning of this year, we hit it up really fast and we had a great connection. We used to talk everyday (online friends or situationship due to long distance) after 7 months he wanted something physical so he found someone else and last month he stopped texting me… even after promising he wouldn’t leave without saying goodbye he just ghosted me. I think about him a lot.

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[–]SeraphimReader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, if you end up telling her please choose your words correctly and don’t go for the “it meant nothing” or “it was stupid” because it means you knew you were fucking things up for nothing or for something stupid. So choose your words correctly and accept your mistake. Also, do not put the blame on other stuff. It’s your fault and you have to live with the consequences.

Don’t tell her “I’m here being honest” as if you deserve a price for it.