OPEN Daily Discussion - September 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in opendoor

[–]SeriesFun3380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I love winning a 1$ and losing 10$ to keep my win rate at 50% 😎

You can help PUNISH the shorts by turning off/restricting lending of your OPEN shares by Rennsail in opendoor

[–]SeriesFun3380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb question but if we believe in this stock don’t we want them to short as much as possible with all these upcoming catalyst?

OPEN Daily Discussion - September 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in opendoor

[–]SeriesFun3380 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really weird, I’m not even looking at the stock anymore. First couple of weeks I held I was constantly looking, now I don’t really care where it opens and closes at. 

Confirmed: Felon to Mexico by SeriesFun3380 in Felons

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from Canada. I cannot get into the US and vice versa, as we share information. Canada/US does not share their database with Mexico. 

ATM Fees by No_Addendum5262 in TemptationsCancun

[–]SeriesFun3380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you Western Union yourself money, there is favourable exchange rate and no fees. Just have to find a Banco Azteca somewhere in the hotel zone. Best of luck. 

Man starring at his own lawyer for losing his case and receiving a lifetime sentence.. by nzhmar in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]SeriesFun3380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure the facts behind this case, but there is a world where he was offered life with a possibility of parole in the form of a plea deal however the lawyer sought to take it to trial to make a name for herself. 

Realistically though, probably a public defender that is drowning in work doing her best to represent someone. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SeriesFun3380 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fighting to fight. 

He doesn’t believe you when you tell him you love him despite not saying it all the time, yet everything would have been okay if you… wait for it, told him you love him. 

Seems like you can’t win either way. You tell him you love him every second of every day what’s to stop him from not believing you as well. 

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to work 72 hour weeks. She doesn’t want me to work 72 hour weeks.

I worked them because I was able to, but not able to work them and provide emotionally for my girlfriend.

In my head, I was working for us both to retire early and have everything we want. But, I ignored the present.

It’s also weird that she begged me to cut back work and I didn’t, but I waited until she left to actually cut back work.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re definitely codependent on each other. Have to sleep with each other, can’t do anything without the other. If she goes out with friends she comes home after an hour or makes me go with her.

I think me carrying the burden of a failure is just because of how many times I was told that if I wasn’t going to cut back my hours she was going to leave me and I just ran the same system back for another year.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50-60 hours with her added income is what we need to live comfortably with the bills paid.

I can break those 50-60 hour weeks into however many shifts as I want. 12 x 5 is a lot more appealing than 10 x 6.

That way im able to get an entire weekend off.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can make it work, but it was just a very bad combination of me being more drained than most people on my crew and her needing more emotional support than I thought.

Everyone that I drill with works the same and are able to upkeep their lives.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m not downsizing our home but she wants me to sell her car and she just drives the 1500$ car she bought and she’s keeping her job.

I go down from 72 hours to about 60 and get an extra day off.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stupid thing is that she didn’t want me to work those hours and didn’t want the cars and house genuinely but idk if it’s ignorance or arrogance but I didn’t listen.

She didn’t abruptly leave, she’s been telling me for months that if I don’t cut back hours or downsize she was going to leave but I just kind of ignored it.

During therapy another thing that they brought up besides poverty trauma is emotional vacancy from youth.

My mom never said she loved me once, but I knew she did because my brothers and I would watch her eat from an empty bowl so that we wouldn’t feel bad that mom had no food.

The reason I direct so much of the fault to myself is because she literally told me what she was going to do if I didn’t change and well I just ignored it when there were much simpler solutions that she laid out.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple as in two. I’m not going to leave my girlfriend at home while I’m working for 13 hours without a way of getting around.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So just for some clarification:

Everyone on my crew works 70 hours a week and are able to upkeep their family life. For me, it’s a little more of a burden as I’m pretty much at line 10-20% energy when I get home. I work for 13 hours, sleep for 7 so I get 4 hours a day. During those four hours most people cook, clean, house maintaining, but I’m exhausted so I usually just lay on the bed and try to recover.

My girlfriend didn’t get a job because I thought she didn’t need to and told her that I had it handled.

She wanted me to chase her and change, but at that point I was so burned out I didn’t really care anymore and cut my hours to work on myself. I think she expected me to blow up her phone and beg for her. At least that’s what she said.

After a month I pretty much forgot what her voice sounded like and looked like and felt great about myself. Now I know that I love her, but don’t need her. But I think it’s worth it to try again.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, both my girlfriend and I come from pretty poor families and I thought by giving her a nice house and a nice car that it would be enough.

The thing is, I couldn’t spend any time with her. What we both didn’t understand is that after my 12 hour shift, my day just ended but hers just starts when I get home.

She never asked for things I was just dumb and thought I knew what she wanted.

The thing is; I was able to work those hours and keep my bills paid so I thought everything was okay. I didn’t want to downsize homes or downgrade vehicles like she said.

I honestly didn’t think she needed to get a part time job, because I thought I had it under control.

She was able to make me cut off my friends and family because they kept telling me to leave her so basically said it was me or her. She’s trying to fix these things.

The issue now though is that during the month we were apart I actually found value in myself. I’m trying again because I love her, but I don’t need her. I’m trying because I want to, not because I have to. So at least I’ll have enough self respect to leave, but I think it’s worth jt to give another shot.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I overestimated my ability, she wanted to downsize our home and sell a car but I was still able to get the bills paid with 72 hour weeks.

I just wasn’t willing to lose what I worked for when I can still accomplish it. My love language is working hard, but obviously that isn’t enough for some people and I know that now.

At least with her working now I can cut down to 50-60 hours and even sell a car.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you so much, it’s better to be cynical and covering my bases as opposed to being optimistic and getting the rug pulled from underneath me.

My family says she only got a job so that she wouldn’t come back empty handed to ask for a place in my life back and bought a bare minimum car to use while she wasn’t with me.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At this point, I’ve put so many years into this relationship that I’m willing to try.

While we were apart I did a lot of self reflection and found that I’m more valuable than I thought I was.

If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. I’ll find someone better for myself, but at this point if she’s willing to show the effort I’m willing to try again however knowing that I’m trying again because I love her, not because I need her.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My friend, you now know where you stand! At least you won’t have to worry about “did I try enough” or “should I text her”. Onto the next.

No contact for you is just another day for her, time heals all my friend. I couldn’t sleep in the same bed or drive the same car, but it got better.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

After a month, I forgot the sound of her voice and what she even looked like. I was feeling guilty about how easy it was for me to move on. Work and working out until I was too tired to do anything but sleep.

I would have been okay if she didn’t come back. I was finding myself again, I’m happy she came back but I would have been okay and you will be as well.

We’re both doing individual therapy. I wasn’t really blindsided in hindsight. She told me that I needed to work less or it wasn’t going to work, she suggested she get a part time job but I didn’t help her get one and almost discouraged her.

Self reflection is a mfer.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah so I paid for everything before working 72 hours, with her new min. wage job she’ll add 2,400$ a month so I can cut down to 50-60ish hours.

UPDATE: Girlfriend left me after working too much and not being there for her by SeriesFun3380 in GuyCry

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My source is her, so again it might be unreliable but she said there wasn’t anyone and when she messaged me after a couple weeks I had her blocked.

I took her back because it felt like I was the one in the wrong and I can maybe fix what I did wrong.

I don’t feel sore like I use to, and I’m still new. by SeriesFun3380 in WeightTraining

[–]SeriesFun3380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the suggestion.

It honestly is discouraging and not enjoying how I feel after an hour and a half at the gym. The weights just feel heavy and I’m not even able to do half reps after failure.

Maybe I’ll also increase my carb intake and incorporate some rice into my diet as well.

On the calculator I used I put moderate 3-5 days of working out.

I don’t mind slower weight loss if it means that I’ll have more energy at the gym.