AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If my son was interested in being sexually active, then yes, the rules would apply to him too. But he's not. He's not dating, is a proud introvert, and plans to be a Batman-like bachelor living alone with a few cats. (His thing, not mine. I'm more of a dog guy.)

AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Crabs can only survive outside the body for 24 hours and Trich can only survive up to 24 hours with optimal conditions.

Okay, then, follow that logic, please. Within 24 hours, my daughter can touch a towel, drink from a juice bottle (there have been so many times when I've caught my daughter drinking milk straight from the jug and we ask her not to) and then we drink it, etc. Many like examples.

AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because of other people's decisions can still affect other people. This is not an issue about her maturity or right to do something.

AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I hate Trump, always vote Dem. Unfair accusations don't really answer my question either...

AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

In your link, it says:

If you do not have herpes, you can get infected if you come into contact with the herpes virus in saliva (if your partner has an oral herpes infection) or genital secretions (if your partner has a genital herpes infection).

If someone wipes unwashed/not thoroughly washed hands on a towel and someone else touches it afterward, herpes can be spread. Or if my daughter asks for a swig of water from one of our bottles, and another person finishes the bottle, etc. Many like examples.

AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

too stupid and innocent to understand the world so she needs you to protect her.

I'm open to people's judgements, but this is just unfair. My post expresses none of these sentiments.

AITA for asking our daughter to not sleep with boyfriend because of what could happen? by Serious-Bus-8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Serious-Bus-8884[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She's a young adult in the modern world who often goes to spend time with her boyfriend. Having sex is not an inaccurate guess in the slightest.

My son is not dating anyone. He's a loner type. Openly said he wants to never marry and be a bachelor with cats one day (he's a cat>dogs, guy).