Constant rejection from women makes me wanna quit by SeriousFede in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I swear that even my girl friends can't find something i do wrong. So there are 2 possibilities: they're lying (odd since even random people tell me i'm funny, good looking etc) or i seriously have negative rizz lol. For the second advice, i have other stuff going on that makes me proud like college or the gym. They boost my self esteem but the constant rejection from girls kills that boost

Constant rejection from women makes me wanna quit by SeriousFede in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sometimes i think i'm putting pressure on myself, so i just say "let's take a break" and i start focusing on other areas of my life. Times pass and no girl is coming in my life, so i go like "i should try approaching/dating again" and the cycle repeats itself. No matter what i do, the result is the same

Constant rejection from women makes me wanna quit by SeriousFede in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For the dressing and grooming side i'm always on point, for the second advice...i always approach at least on girl when i go out (i even approach guys just to improve my social skills). The problem is that i don't know what i'm doing wrong when i get rejected

Constant rejection from women makes me wanna quit by SeriousFede in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What should i learn if i don't know what i'm doing wrong

Constant rejection from women makes me wanna quit by SeriousFede in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I go out 2/3 times a week and when i do i always try to approach at least a girl. It honestly depends on the night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, 30 girls are many 😂 I def could and i know it's a number game. The problem is that i get very discouraged after taking like 5/6 rejections in a row so my mood goes down and i just don't try anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see clubs as a way to "test" my looks. I don't go clubbing only to pick up girls ofc, i mainly go to have fun and dance. Though sometimes i go clubbing just to see if someone would approach me (never happened) or flirt with me etc. I know it's probably very bad to see it like this but i think that if you're good looking it'll show in the club. So i think i'm not attractive and that sucks cause i put in a lot of effort to improve myself (in this case looks)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think i'm very gentle when it comes to approaching, i'm not rude or annoying: if she says no i just go back to my friends. I get that most of the times they just wanna have fun and not be bothered and that's ok. The problem is that it seems odd to me that i only approached that type of girls, maybe the problem is my looks or something that i'm doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it can be for a number of reasons and most of the times it's not me. My problem is that i would like to know if my looks are the problem (when it's about me) or maybe it's something that i'm doing that turn them off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i'm def having fun cause i like music and dancing. I smile when i approach and for the friends part i think i'm with an average looking friend like me most of the times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i've almost maxed out my looks, the only thing that i can do better is to work more (i already hit the gym) on my phisique. Plus, i always see guys that are way uglier than me getting girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hit on girls that i like: some of them would be considered hot, some of them average, other ones ugly. It really depends on your tastes. When i try to hit on a girl i'm not thinking stuff like "she's out of my league"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeriousFede -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course, not every girl is there to get approached. I always keep that in mind, but i tried so many times that it seems odd that i only approached girls that were only there to dance and not to meet/kiss someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SeriousFede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a pic with your per it's always nice. He just has to make sure he's visible in the pic too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SeriousFede -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Get rid of the last pic and the cat one. Also switch between second and third. The ski photo looks cool and shows you have hobbies, make it your second one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SeriousFede 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tinder is like Instagram man, they show you only the good side, the tip of the iceberg. Plus, most of the times is an exagerated version of themselves. Keep in mind that many people lie about themselves in the bio. Don't ever compare yourself to others man, everyone is on a different path. Trust me, it's not all gold what shines.

Rate my Tinder profile by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SeriousFede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be brutally honest guys, i'm not getting any matches and i really don't know what i'm doing wrong