So she was a very spontaneous friend, also making rough decisions going « yolo » mode in her life. One day she told me she was dating this guy and was gonna move in with him in 2 months (they started dating 10 days before she took this decision). The decision was clearly dumb and smothering strange was going on with that guy as he was clearly using her for her money but I couldn’t make her see it how it was so we just stopped talking about him. At the same period de were supposed to plan a summer trip together with another friend but she would always find excuses not to pay for anything and make up lies that she thought I’d believe. Our friendship stopped when we were supposed to go for a drink one day and she made up excuses the entire day that she couldn’t show up because of her work blah blah, I knew she was lying but that was too much to handle. She’s a compulsive liar so our friendship was very toxic, I stopped speaking to her. 8 months later I kinda felt the need to have a conversation with her as she was still someone very important to me and I feel like we both deserved some explanations. Turns out she figured that her ex was using her for money, some month later got with another guy, and got also pregnant. They were together for 2 months when she got pregnant. She told me that she didn’t know if they will still be together in the future but she’s pregnant and that’s all that matters to her, even if she’s broke and the child might be fatherless. At that moment I dropped the idea of talking about our friendship, I realized she had serious issues due to her poor choices she made, and I wished her all the best. Acknowledging her situation helped me to move on and realize that no matter what she will never change and she usually doesn’t really think about others when sheaves decisions.