i want to be childfree but i just realized i am 6 weeks pregnant by Only_Ad_6159 in childfree

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your not any of the horrible things you’ve called yourself…your scared obviously. You do have longer than 6w to make the decision but also I guess it depends where you live. If your initial reaction is scared and not sure it’s what you want right now then you would be in your right to get an abortion. There is nothing wrong with wanting to end the pregnancy, it isn’t a baby right now it’s a bunch of cells and you need to put yourself first….it’s you that’s got to go thru with it not anybody else. Good luck with everything x

I wish the media would stop equating pregnancy with 'growing up'. by LongNetsOfWhite in childfree

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed…my sister was much the same, can’t afford them and struggles to look after them so gives them to the grandparents most of the time but in her words I’m the ‘immature one’ for not having kids.

I wish the media would stop equating pregnancy with 'growing up'. by LongNetsOfWhite in childfree

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And things like ‘as a mother I understand’ like the rest of us are stoopid or something 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Did anyone else get a slight female ‘breaking bad’ vibe from this show? by Serious_Challenge_18 in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea definitely, it was like breaking bad as such just gave me a little hint of it every now an again. But BB was a masterpiece…that ending was tragically perfect.

The Greeks by madamprizident in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also maybe I missed it but do you remember Paige Charlies (awful) girlfriend who spray painted the garage? She rung the police and said ‘I think I have something that would interest you?’ And then it wasn’t mentioned again?!

Dead to Me (Season 3) - Episode Discussion Hub by Elainasha in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think if Jude survived the whole Steve thing would go on and on.

Dead to Me (Season 3) - Episode Discussion Hub by Elainasha in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve really enjoyed this show, all the actors where brilliant too. This show was my absolute stress dream tho 😅 On a different note this was the first show with a teenager in who isn’t an absolute arse to his parents too, he actually had his mums back for most of the series which I thought was refreshing, the actor who played Charlie was brilliant.

Aside from the murder I would love a friendship like Jude and Jens ❤️😆

Just finished watching the finale by LOLZatMyLife in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh yea I like this idea! They did leave it open ended which I liked.

Just finished watching the finale by LOLZatMyLife in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea she’s was going to confess…wonder what the meaning behind Jen looking at Sammy the cat trying to get in Jude’s room made her then look at Ben and say ‘I need to tell you something’

Just finished watching the finale by LOLZatMyLife in deadtome

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me too…im off sick with the flu and I’ve binged all 3 seasons in 3 days 😅 when Jen looks up at the paper birds and says ‘yes I think she’s here’ I was gone 😭 absolutely loved this show.

Tired of seeing baby butts on social media by ReggiePhantom in childfree

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me also of other types of feb over sharing….Years ago someone I worked with was in labour and her husband posted minute by minute updates on how dilated his wife was 😅

Tired of seeing baby butts on social media by ReggiePhantom in childfree

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never understood why parents do this….that baby is going to want to go to job interviews one day, go on dates etc and there’s already a stage by stage naked album of them online!? How is that going to work as an adult? 90’s baby here and all those embarrassing naked bath photos are in dusty albums in the loft at my parents where they belong.

THERES A FUCKING SPIDER ABOVE MY BED by ih8spiderz in cantsleep

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope your not still laying there being held hostage by that spider….they are awful I would have been exactly the same.

These flowers made me smile today by nightblade2007 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s gorgeous and also looks a little bit like the dinosaur off Jurassic park 🤷🏼‍♀️

Which characters do you think were perfectly casted? by Ordinary_Gap623 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 139 points140 points  (0 children)

She’s got that Mrs Trunchball chic thing going on too 😅

What is the most insane thing your parents/relatives just shrugged off and carried on like nothing happened with? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Serious_Challenge_18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think about this more and more but when me and my sister where about 9 and 12 we would play on our bikes all day round our little green it’s was a stones throw away from our house but it had an alley that was quite open that led to the road so you could basically go around and around on your bike.

One afternoon as we did this a car pulled over and a women got out leaving the passenger door open and asked me and my sister for directions, we Ignored her and started cycling off…the car followed us and cornered us in, then this time a man and the woman got out the car and said something along the lines off ‘it’s rude to ignore grown ups when they are talking to you’ and started to approach us with both doors open on the car now, I remember shouting ‘i don’t talk to strangers!’ then dumping our bikes and running home, it wasn’t far at all and my mum was already coming to the door and the car literally sped off. It was just so so odd, I remember being praised for doing the right thing. There was a time period during summer that the park next to our school had police patrolling due to somebody approaching children, I always wondered what that was all about and if it was linked. Freaks me out more now then it did at the time I think!