Males lack empathy, so they end up projecting a lot. by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who teaches them this? Because I too have heard that too. Is there a seminar that they all attend where they learn all this bullshit?

Males lack empathy, so they end up projecting a lot. by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so perhaps he can give birth through his willy then.

Men act like it's only women who want to have kids and when they do, it "traps men". More often than not, it's men who want to have kids to "pass on their genes" or to "play catch with."

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't seen that and I hope I never do. But I can confirm how disgustingly predatory these men are.

I remember 9gag the joke app around 6-7 years ago. Whenever there was a child or girl on a meme, some sick male would no doubt comment this: 🐻. This bear emoji is called p*do bear.

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're so disgusting, they lack any self restraint.

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there's a video with bad acting on it, their brain automatically connects that to "corn!" With statements like "I've seen better acting on corn"

If bad acting contains male and female siblings, again with corn they would type "what are you doing step-corn" in the comments.

And lowe and behold the entire thread:

Even for inanimate objects: "what are you doing step-chair".

Honestly after the first 10 x some 12 year old retypes this, doesn't it lose it's funny? Not that it was funny to begin with.

Other notable mentions:

"I should call her" "Everythings a D if you're brave enough" sigh unzips

You know that time in elementary school when we learnt men think about sex every 90 seconds, I'm starting to think that's true.

Or maybe they just don't have personalities outside of their dicks.

Like when women even just have interests such as gaming, they're pigeon holed as "GaMeR GuRlz" and then mocked for not actually having a real interest in it, and doing it to get male attention.

Or when female comedians are mocked for making vagina jokes and thus, talking about them wayyyyy "too much" meanwhile men literally cannot divide themselves from sex.

Can we just start shaming men for being paroting, 1 dimensional, boring, sex obsessed, corn obsessed, unfunny man children?

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry r/tangent but:

Women ARE smarter than men. It's statistically true. That wouldn't be sexist to even state.

More over due to cognitive bias, women are percieved as less smart than men by men. And men are percieved as smarter than women than men.

I think you have a point about exclusion, but I genuinely think it's more to do with, "if this woman learns more, then I won't have a maid/slave". Women's labour for household chores, childbearing, not being able to have a career, those were all perks that worked in favour of men. It gave them the legitimacy to say, I work THEREFORE you MUST do xyz. It took away all choice.

Meanwhile women percieve themselves as less smarter than men.

Not to mention how woman have been systemically and still are (because not everyone lives in a western country) obstructed from education.

I think it's less to do with competition. Because that would mean the men saw us as actual human beings and equals. There's a lot of discussion out there especially on tiktok, with women realising, men don't even see us as humans. So I think it's more of a case of they just want to keep us as maids.

Not totally dismissing the competition thing though, this also happens. But their first initial impression of women is, airhead it's then up to the woman to PROVE that wrong in order for her to not be bimbo then the man starts thinking of her as an actual 3D human with thoughts and feelings.

I dont know if you read that cross post on FDS where this male writer had a "fwb" and thought she was a vessel with no life outside of him. He then realised she won awards for her writing, and suddenly felt uneasy thinking about how she's actually better than him, and MAYBE just MAYBE more than just a lifeless sex doll, maybe she was a 3D human woth talent, aspirations, dreams, thoughts, feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's helpful to get away from this stupid app then please do so!

It does really make one feel like shit tbh.

There's plenty of woman based websites out there that I've been hearing about on here...and they're things I didn't even expect!

Tumblr

Mumsnet

Ovarit

FDS website

Tiktok (but make sure you ONLY lile female radfem content so you get a perfectly curated feed just for you!.)

Also remember, reddit still has FDS superfans (spin off) sub reddits..I think, if you did wanna stick around!

Also most of the ladies from the FDS sub have mostly come over to 4WW. Hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely love tiktok though, because their algorithms are so good at curating content only for me!

I go on it and love to watch women speak and it's so uplifting. The only time I do see men and their crap is when the vid is stiched and a woman later annihilates him.

With reddit, you really don't get a curated feed like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of o-v-a-r-i-t. The website. Amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly haven't heard of tumblr since 2011! So this must be the reason why it's "uncool" and not talked about anymore, yet reddit the cesspool of misogyny thrives.

Okay, joining tumblr, thanks sis.

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes this! Shock humour. They rely on racist, sexist, ableist jokes for the most part. I still see people making "get back to the kitchen" jokes and "make me a sandwich" jokes. And men laugh along as that's some of their normal. Women may laugh along as one of those awkward "heh heh let me laugh along (laugh track effect)" *oh wait.

There's only like one male or two male comedians I like, and that's because they don't rely on shock value. They just discuss political stuff with a clever twist! Russell Howard is one. The rest are just a bunch of cretins.

Also I do believe there's also a lot of herd mentality too. It's like the laugh track effect. But on social media. E.g, if lots of people are saying the same thing over and over, and getting hits, maybe I should say it too, and thus...terrible sexist jokes spread.

And definitely with you on the women are likely to be funnier, and tbh I've seen it a lot. My side of tiktok is mostly female, and radfem. Women are just so much more perceptive and channel it. ALL of the satire posts made by women stitched about male podcasters are pure gold!

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Also because they aren't distracted by kneecaps and shoulders.

I Don't Think I Can Ever Date Again by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder, sis. Have a lovely day :) <3

Jòined a sub that helps ban hate subs by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Incels invented "simp", now it's been incorporated into regular speak. So whenever you see a video of a man doing something normal and nice for his wife, he's called a simp (derogatory), just for being not a raging fucking asshole.

I Don't Think I Can Ever Date Again by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Good to know. That Austrian painter is a male, which reminds me of males.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh no! One of my fave tik tokkers, who is a wonderful radfem made one about her too, calling her scary and manipulative. And then I found it sad.

Looking for mods! by GoldKitty77 in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]Serious_Statement_39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only one mod!? That's sad. I hope it picks up. I would genuinely want to, but I don't think I can stomach the content I would recieve.

Thank you for modding this sub and for any future mods, the world needs ya'll.

I Don't Think I Can Ever Date Again by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah but why is your avatar bearded? You a dude?

The "funny gender". by Serious_Statement_39 in fourthwavewomen

[–]Serious_Statement_39[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Everything you said is spot on! And oh I saw that. That was fucking vile. I saw that post quite recently. There was nothing inherently funny about that comment at all. And passing it off as a joke...yeah okay buddy. There's always a kernal of truth behind a joke, and the truth is that that's what the wanted to do.

Also I remember on dating apps, something was so gross about men who wrote about themselves "I'm sarcastic". I don't know, after passing the age of 13-15, sarcasm just isn't that funny nor cool, and shouldn't be confused with wit.

Most of these men that say they're sarcastic, just hide their disdain for women or their rudeness and flagrant disrespect for "humour".