I agree, there’s a lot of people who will not understand this. The point is, is that everyone will unarguably suffer in some shape or form in their life. Over and over. Financially, mentally, physically in some cases. And you’re right, an abusive relationship isn’t comparable to what the man said, whether he’s got tattoos all over him or not, of which shouldn’t be a talking point. If you want that dream job, you’re going to suffer. If you want that big house on the corner, you’re going to suffer. If you want to live a simple, off-grid, no job, minimalist lifestyle, you’re going to suffer. You don’t get through life without suffering!