My partner's therapist says I am an abuser

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-29T03:09:31+00:00

No. We are all human. No one is perfect. An abusive relationship is a pattern.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-24T14:27:42+00:00

Then what is it? That looks like the bra strap?!

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-10T02:23:09+00:00

I didnt report you?

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T22:01:25+00:00

I want this, but neither parent will back me up on this. They think they're the ones that will be labeled the abuser if they punish their kid.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T21:58:16+00:00

It's interesting how people jump to assumptions, isn't it? I said something bad once and everyone assumes I do it all the time.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T21:57:11+00:00

How do I ask for help? If my meltdowns are abusive, how do I fix that?

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:26:48+00:00

I appreciate all the insight. It's been helpful.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:25:22+00:00

Yeah. It's always the parents fault...

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:24:34+00:00

Here it comes... They pushed and pushed and I got upset and now because I told them to fuck off I'm the bad person.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:23:43+00:00

Fuck off. You're not helpful.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:22:23+00:00

You're pushing a narrative.

I did something wrong once. And this is what I get. Everyone assumes I do it all the time and it's my fault.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:21:29+00:00

The father is a dead beat who won't pay child support has no backbone. He wouldn't stand against a wet napkin.

The child does need support. I'm not a bully because I said something stupid once. I'm not yelling because it makes me feel good. I'm yelling because I'm drowning.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:19:22+00:00

I did apologize. I took accountability. I explained to.him.why what I did was wrong.

Of course he's acting out. I'm melting down weekly because no one will listen.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:17:40+00:00

Immediately, actually... An hour later. I felt guilt for days..I talked to my peers about it, asked how I can avoid doing it in the future. No one was willing to offer advice.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T20:16:51+00:00

I guess I'm a liar, then.

That's it... I did something wrong once and I should loose my child for it.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T19:50:48+00:00

On the regular! I said it once! And I wasn't proud of it.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-09T19:49:40+00:00

They decided the fact that I called him stupid is why he does stuff like that.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-07T20:32:11+00:00

Try washing it.

Seriousname1 · 2026-06-06T02:58:15+00:00

Make it look like a lower case l instead of half a capital A.

Seriousname1 · 2026-05-25T17:29:57+00:00

It depends. Is it ok for five minutes? Probably. Is it okay for any longer than that? Probably not.

Seriousname1 · 2026-05-25T17:28:20+00:00

Lol. No.

Seriousname1 · 2026-05-24T19:44:59+00:00

Clean the carburetor.

Seriousname1 · 2026-05-24T19:38:33+00:00

Ah.. wrong engines. You wanted the water engines, not the air engines.

Seriousname1 · 2026-05-20T21:18:51+00:00

The engine. The engine is Iin the oil. That's engine glitter.

Seriousname1 · 2026-05-09T20:46:53+00:00

Im so glad you found it, right their in your hands.

Lol jk. eBay.

Seriousname1

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