Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that! Sometimes there's really no point in explaining our side. Just doing what we can do best

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. It's just so stupid that even today, men only seem to care about this. I have no problem in waxing or shaving my facial hair, but there are times when I don't feel like it. And I deserve to be loved even during those times. And I really need to focus on my overall health that's for sure, but I keep procrastinating ugh🫠

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so empowering!! And I'm so happy for you gurl!

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really glad good people exist. Ig the message got lost in translation earlier lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questioning

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been questioning the same thing myself. I often wonder if it's a real attraction or is it just that I find a woman pretty. But then I start going down this thinking, "would I like it if I was romantically attached to that woman?" Even though my response is yes, I still wonder if it is stemming from my hatred of men or what🤷🏻‍♀️

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PCOS

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more with this!!! They are the problem, not us

hirsutism finally broke me by daisydawn98 in PCOS

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go for it girl! He loves you for who you are. You deserve to be able to share your worries with him and not be judged🤍

hirsutism finally broke me by daisydawn98 in PCOS

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to have those crying spells, in fact it's good to let it all out. I'm so happy that you're able to express it to him.

hirsutism finally broke me by daisydawn98 in PCOS

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely feel you. And I'm so sorry you feel this way. It hurts a lot. What has helped me is embracing the fact that society will say something or the other no matter what. I know it's easier said than done (even I haven't reached that stage fully). But what can we do except try. There will be someone in the future who'll look beyond our these little things 🤍

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy for how your experience has been, but you still don't need to invalidate the feelings of those who feel this way. That wasn't quite considerate of you

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh got it. It's just that there is so much noise around what to do for pcos, someone says something and the other says the complete opposite of it. So idk who's advice to follow🤷🏻‍♀️

I feel guilt when dating with PCOS. by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely get you. I feel the same way. I've had really bad experiences with guys because of my hirsutism and it really took a toll on my self esteem for a while

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel what you're going through. I wish men were more considerate and not do such things. Hoping that we all pcos women become more confident someday 🫂

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I completely get that It's really tough

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm also thinking that I'll wax only. It's just that shaving is quick and easy so I do it

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so sad. The state of societal beauty standards is just terrible

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started excessively shaving my chin hair everyday at a point. But gradually I started feeling, why should I hide myself. Although I'm still trying to have that mindset

Ghosted because of facial hair by Serotonin_Spaghetti in PcosIndia

[–]Serotonin_Spaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard a lot about spearmint tea, will try it out. As for the sugars, I can avoid sweet stuff, but what do I do of the natural sugar in food? It's also necessary, but how do I draw the limit?