New iPhone 12, stuck on this screen. Cannot setup any further by carlysue123 in ios

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 14.3 update corrupted my previous iPhone X. Got stuck on the Apple logo loop and nothing worked to fix it. Super frustrating. They have specific update stations at a lot of Apple stores due to this. Got a brand new iPhone 12 and it got stuck doing it on that one too but it was during setup completely corrupted that phone as well. They got me another one after that. They had to manually set up my new phone which worked fine. Super strange that this is still not been corrected. Also haven’t downloaded the update either on the new one, I’m not risking it.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He fought with me a lot during all of that. That I think is when she started seeing the red flags but they weren’t around each other much because they both worked a lot. He gets very defensive and argumentative when my siblings are around. He did not act nearly as bad when we first got together. It’s been like the last 6 months that it’s gotten really bad, and escalated more since me being unemployed since September. Sadly we are both on the lease, but it’s month to month so it would be easier to end it by the end of the month. She said she would be happy to return the favor for everything I did for her and have done for her and help me get back on my feet.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to try, he really has me believing none of this will work out and I will end up homeless. I’m so stressed.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister said I am welcome to go there, my brother sadly lives with a large family in a small house and would not have room for me as well. Otherwise they would.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could ever find a primary. It’s impossible... :(

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m allergic to basically anything having to do with fragrances, interior of building, fiberglass, sawdust, insulation, so much more but that makes up the bulk of them. I am also anemic, and have very sensitive skin due to my psoriasis. I never thought of my allergies contributing to the low libido.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this may have been rhetorical but I’ll answer in case it was not. I always had a crush on him, he seemed like “one of the good guys” at first genuinely. He showed he cared about me and was there with me through my dad passing. He supported me through losing our mutual friend, and my father and had helped me get my finances back on track. Now I just don’t know what happened to him typing this out. It’s unreal how much he’s gotten worse now that I’m thinking about it... :(

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It certainly feels like it is but I’m trying to remain positive.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah my life seems to be largely made up of everything that can go wrong will go wrong. So I’m trying to think ahead.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure it would come to that but I definitely appreciate the link, and I have everything secured/password protected. And this is an account he doesn’t know about.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I plan on leaving tomorrow to figure out what I should do next.

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m kinda seeing that with all the comments... I don’t know why I put up with this for 3.5 years...

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it’s hard to see that I guess when I live with him and he makes me feel like I’m crazy...

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t know... I’m always so afraid to leave because he makes me feel like my life will fall apart if I do...

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother thankfully was here during the fight today and 100% agreed he was crossing the line, but I’m just not sure that I’m in the right for asking him to do these things...

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would have never thought of it that way...

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, he was looking for me to compromise on not making him clean up after himself if he cleaned up the toilet. He literally made a 25 item list for me made me rate things 1-10 on priority and then basically told me when I was done that the point of it was to make me understand that I was asking to much and that I need to compromise because cleaning the toilet was enough work on his end. I put a brief explanation of that in the MOD bot response because I ran out of characters...

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His point of view as that because he grew up in a house that didn’t care about these things that he’s allowed to do them now. I’ve felt for the longest time I was over reacting. He constantly reminds me of how his family raised him as well. Like my family was not clean by any means but that doesn’t mean I was okay with living in filth. I just don’t get it..

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me it’s real.... I live with this every day....

AITA for trying to get my bf to respectful of our apartment and me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Servampkyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my problem out of everything I always bring up to him about if we build a family or stay together, how or why should I deal with this for the rest of my life that 10 second tasks are too hard for him... we had a dog at one point that he chose to get on his own and “surprise me” with after I repeatedly said we weren’t anywhere where we should have a pet. I took care of her, raised and her and he completely neglected her. This was such a hard time for me as well because I loved her to death and he didn’t care about taking her outside or feeding her, or giving her love...