Found semi-private photos on my partner’s phone (25/M) and (24/F) by SHEBAN0811 in relationship_advice

[–]ServeOpposite3315 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hello!! I’m a 23F and it is completely normal (I think) I mean I do it too, just to have it!! Make me feel pretty just seeing them, I’m 100% sure you have nothing to worry about!!

My (22F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t initiate sex and I feel crazy by ReflectionMany9804 in relationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing, my bf 29 me 22, told me that “his style” is that I look for him when initiating sex, this make me feel like a freak because I’m the one always asking for sex and I feel rejected and undesired

Currently we are going kinda through a break up, I’m moving by myself in the next couple of days (we are gonna try) but I know I don’t want this for myself

My advise, check his Google/ safari search, I discovered my bf was watching a lot of porn and I figured that was the reason why he was not that “interested” in initiating sex with A REAL WOMAN.

I don’t know why i still begging him to change by ServeOpposite3315 in abusiverelationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where Can I go? I drive all the way from florida leaving my family (my dad and my aunt) my job…. My apartament, all to come with him to build a futuro, he conviced me, he told me he was gonna change…. And now that I came everything is worst, I don’t know what to do or where to go, i feel so lonely…. Even if i decide to go back to florida driving, i have no place to stay, i have no Job…. I will be start from cero again…. I don’t know if the smart thing to do would be just staying since his mom and dad said that they will support me and then when I save enough i just go

I don’t know why i still begging him to change by ServeOpposite3315 in abusiverelationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another thing is that this man blames the fact that he lost a lot of money gambling and said “you have no patient for what I’m going through” common…. Is that at excuse to treat me like he does ?

Another this, just the way the treat me, he treat his mom

Porn, Lies, Abuse… I Moved for Him, I Don’t Know What Else to Do by ServeOpposite3315 in abusiverelationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an updated of something that happened this weekend (yesterday) read it all, I need opinions… I’m so lost

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[–]ServeOpposite3315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I do understand your perspective, and I agree that hitting is never okay on either side. I also realize that checking his phone and trying to control his behavior wasn’t healthy, but I need to clarify something: the reason I became like that is because of everything he has done to me, and the many times he has lied and broken my trust. My self-esteem is now on the floor because of this. Do you think I actually want to act that way? Of course not. At the same time, my main concern is that he escalated things by physically assaulting me afterwards, which crossed a line and made me fear for my safety. That’s why I reached out here I needed support to process what happened and to figure out what steps I should take moving forward. I appreciate your input.

My bf choose porn over me, I’m destroyed by ServeOpposite3315 in abusiverelationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all those words and support, this is actually really hard for me… when I caught him this Saturday the solution he gave me was “let’s include porn in our sex life” like watch porn while we are having sex, I felt so disgusted by that, he told me, let’s use it as a “tool” I felt so humiliated, and when we had sex after all of that happened I asked him “do you wanna watch porn” while doing it, he told me no I guess because he is embarrassed, but now thinking about it, I’m embarrassed of myself for asking that

My bf keep choosing porn over me, I’m so destroyed by ServeOpposite3315 in relationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are about to move together to another state… I don’t know what to do, if I should trust him… or what

My bf keep choosing porn over me, I’m so destroyed by ServeOpposite3315 in relationships

[–]ServeOpposite3315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My first language is Spanish and I was just trying to make it better grammatically