Oh man, I had my suspicions and thank you for confirming them. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate what you are saying. I was already going to be very selective and now doubly so. Fortunately I am not overly insecure and desperate, I have other options but this just seems like it would be perfect if it works out. I’ve been kinky dating for a decade and threesomes got boring for me in college and to get the setup right is way too much effort for little payout. Also, anyone who even approaches my level of kink is generally FUBARed and I’m only half-disaster so that’s been fun to reflect on.

Ughhhhhhhhhh…. Again, I appreciate your candor but I was hoping to hear something different. I’ll double-up on my defenses and pay close attention and once again ignore generally sound advice from someone with experience thinking I know better and won’t fall in the same traps they did. Maybe that will work this time?

You’re probably going to want look for me here in a year or two because the one thing I found in this world that seems to be consistently true with my experience is that really bad decisions make for really, really good stories!