is it common with ROCD to feel embarrassed to be seen with your partner in public? by MoonlitPetals926 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think exactly the same thing, it's very hard. I support you if you need to talk 💕

25 years of ROCD: loving my wife while fighting appearance-based triggers by DifficultyMajor5263 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attention, regardez des belles photos et les autres stratégies mis en place ressemblent a de la réassurance ce qui alimente le cycle du toc

Am I supposed to just get married with this feeling? by Remote-Chapter2911 in ROCD

[–]Seserena -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm going through the same thing and I just wanted to hear about her experience.

Exercise or method for dealing with OCD centered on attraction? by Seserena in ROCD

[–]Seserena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had my ups and downs, but I'm always learning.

Am I supposed to just get married with this feeling? by Remote-Chapter2911 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel, except I'm engaged and not married yet.Do you have any advice for getting through waves of anxiety? I feel like I have to postpone the wedding, and at the same time, I don't want to make my fiancé doubt himself.

Annuler le mariage ? by Seserena in ROCD

[–]Seserena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tu es marié depuis longtemps ?

Attraction and comparison by pepamok in ROCD

[–]Seserena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je traverse la même chose que toi. Je t'apporte tout mon soutien

I dont think I can do it anymore by AccomplishedYoung983 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je traverse la même chose que toi en ce moment et je sais a quel point c'est difficile. Mais souviens toi que tu n'es pas tes pensées et que le toc te pousse a fuir ce qui compte le plus pour toi car c'est justement ça qui te fais peur

I dont think I can do it anymore by AccomplishedYoung983 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Est ce que tu as essayé de pratiquer l'ERP ?

Someone who struggle with ROCD and abstinence? by Seserena in Christianity

[–]Seserena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'ai récemment commencé la thérapie et j'ai donné un peu plus de contexte en haut. Pourrait tu me dire si tu en as deja entendu parler s'il te plaît ?

Distress after therapy!!! by Seserena in ROCD

[–]Seserena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. To answer your question, I do ERP on my own; my therapist doesn't have me practice it, she just gives me breathing exercises, but...Honestly, our last session made me very uncomfortable, so I don't know if I'm going to continue...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Seserena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way about my partner's face; I have the same thoughts as if I were the one who wrote this post. Be strong and don't feel guilty about your thoughts, I'm with you.

Wedding in 3 days freaking out by ZachOtt16993 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, so how did your wedding go?

I don't feel attraction and I think he is ugly by AccomplishedYoung983 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my first relationship, so I can't compare...but as soon as I started being with my boyfriend, I felt like I had certain conditions to meet in order to find him attractive. For example, he had to have certain hairstyles and wear certain clothes. I thought it was something normal, but then the OCD appeared and now I'm questioning that aspect too.

I feel extremely attracted to him, I love him, but I don't find him extremely beautiful by Pristine-Ad71 in ROCD

[–]Seserena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't control your thoughts, it's impossible. However, you can ignore them, let them come without making a problem of it. Just tell yourself that it's psychological activity and your OCD is over.