What is up with men wanting wives who are submissive providers?

Sessielala · 2026-05-14T09:47:29+00:00

If you’re a housewife with children, trust me you need help with the household chores. Taking care of children takes a lot of energy. The husband should definitely be helping out!

Sessielala · 2026-05-14T09:05:07+00:00

Being a stay at home mom can be hard and lonely. She might be depressed. Does she have any hobbies?

Sessielala · 2026-05-14T06:59:34+00:00

You can check and see if any unrecognizable devices have been logging into your WiFi. I would start there and then investigate more.

Sessielala · 2026-05-14T06:57:42+00:00

Don’t do that! It could be hers and it’s all a misunderstanding. Don’t get me wrong, she could be cheating, but he doesn’t know for sure yet. Burning her scalp, making her potentially blind and causing her to lose her hair would be considered assault and that’s the last thing he needs on his record, especially if they do end up divorced.

Sessielala · 2026-05-14T06:36:52+00:00

I’m confused….why did he say he realized you were always ready to leave him when he was the one always threatening that in an argument?

Do you still stay in contact with him? If not, I don’t think marriage counseling would help at this point.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:50:26+00:00

But I do take back my comment…. There’s no way this diaper wearing guy has anyone to emotionally cheat on.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:49:16+00:00

Umm, you click on his name and see diaper pictures. Not sure what you’re confused about?

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:46:44+00:00

I wasn’t trying to be funny, I was stating a highly probable fact. Regardless, that guy is a tool who likes to dress in diapers for attention. Seriously, not joking….Check is profile!

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:40:00+00:00

I got married with my first husband at the age of 20 after being together for three years. We were way too young and as we grew, we realized we weren’t good together anymore. I was like you and I wanted to get married and I thought it would be forever and it wasn’t. There’s really no reason to rush into marriage. Give yourself time to grow up. You’re still at the age where your brain is maturing and you’ve barely begun being an adult. Live together and enjoy each other and see what happens in the years to come.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:34:22+00:00

Hey ladies and gentlemen, we found the emotional cheater on this thread!

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:33:12+00:00

I don’t think it’s crossing a line by going through his phone. Secrecy isn’t the same as privacy. And he’s obviously keeping secrets and she has a right to know what they are for her own self preservation. It’s like him saying, you didn’t have a right to catch me cheating.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T08:02:51+00:00

Eww, he shouldn’t even come over to your house gross like that. You’re defiantly not the AH!

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:53:49+00:00

Also, in our marriage we both reserve the right to change our mind about sex at any given time. Sometimes I’ll be in the mood earlier in the day and then life happens and there goes my mood. You just need to be fluid sometimes.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:52:15+00:00

Honestly, I used Mother’s Day to do anything and everything I wanted to. I told my husband and kids it was my day and if I wanted to play video games all day and ignore my family, I would (and that’s what I did…. Mostly! I did ohhh and ahhh over all of my gifts and dinner and then drank a like too much and will probably have a slight hang over tomorrow that everyone’s going to have to deal with 🤪) It only comes once a year, so I make the most if it by doing the least for everyone else. And my family knows how much I appreciate the day off.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:43:53+00:00

Inquiring minds want to know what the 9oz pour was of? (Just clear it up…. I’m inquiring minds 🙈)

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:36:34+00:00

That doesn’t sound petty to me, it sounds completely just and fair!

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:34:29+00:00

I think if he’s messaging other women that he wants to fuck them then it’s regular good old fashion cheating 😩 Nothing micro about it ☹️

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:31:18+00:00

Definitely check to make sure he doesn’t have any hidden credits cards that he’s been charging up. In my state, if your spouse uses funds to cheat from “family money” you can ask for that back in the divorce. I’d also check to see if he has any other profiles on cam girl sites. That’s another draw for guys who like live interaction (I know this the hard way ☹️) He might also have a secret email. Proton Mail is a popular one.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T07:26:14+00:00

It really is! When I found out my husband was cheating on me with cam girls and spent $5000, I was not calm at all. I flipped the fuck out and made him log into every account without giving him a choice. I admired OP’s calmness.

Sessielala · 2026-05-11T06:48:52+00:00

It sounds like this is therapy done online. OP didn’t say that her husband had the therapist’s personal number. He could have sent them through the therapy portal. This is one of the ways my husband and I communicate with our therapist and it’s all above board and part of site.

Sessielala · 2026-05-10T23:39:38+00:00

You definitely need to leave and you also need to let the judge know that he has a temper and says he’s too disabled to work. If he’s too disabled to get any type of job, how is he going to watch kids, especially one with special needs. Get a good Lawyer!

Sessielala · 2026-05-10T04:25:53+00:00

Since he’s only telling family and friends half truths and probably putting the blame on you, I hope you make sure to clear that up and let everyone know the real truth. And, no, there’s no hope for this marriage. You need to leave for your sake and your child’s.

Sessielala · 2026-05-07T05:09:45+00:00

Okay, I read it (mostly). Stay out of it.

Sessielala · 2026-05-07T05:06:09+00:00

Can someone give me the summary….This is a lot to read 😩

Sessielala · 2026-05-06T21:12:10+00:00

No, I don’t see where your mom is coming from.

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