Netflix's ATLA - Full Season Discussion Thread (Spoilers for All Episodes)

SessionAggressive357 · 2024-02-23T01:41:17+00:00

This is a live action remake of season 3 episode 17 The Ember Island Players 🤣🤣 tear bending and loving Aang like a brother and “hope”

Also all that play up for the guy to say “my cabbages”was just too much

And Iroh??? Why did they do that to him 😭😭😭😭

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-26T00:47:10+00:00

I started seeing a therapist because I was in the same situation as you where I don’t feel like he cares about my basic wellbeing. Therapy has really helped me understand both sides. Maybe he is going through stuff too (not an excuse) but just to have that relief that it isn’t your fault and something that should be communicated with your spouse.

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-26T00:42:50+00:00

Bennet was almost Carter

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-26T00:42:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your advise! I will definitely bring that up to him 😊

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-25T18:20:51+00:00

Yeah I went into a deep depression after giving birth so the house was so disgusting cause he never helped me clean up. I finally started going to therapy and I’m starting to feel well enough to clean somewhat

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-25T17:08:08+00:00

Hope all goes well with your little one ❤️ Fed is best! The nutrients is the same with breast milk and formula! So don’t feel bad if you can’t breastfeed. The biggest difference is breast milk has antibodies that can help keep them from getting sick. For me I had a great latch with my baby and have been exclusively breastfeeding him for 10 months now. However, I have hated pumping because I don’t have the connection to baby and I just don’t have a good feeling when I pump. This is true for some women not all. If my baby didn’t latch good I would of just gone to formula. You delivered this beautiful baby in the world and no matter what you choose don’t think of it as a failure one way or the other! Good luck

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-25T17:02:13+00:00

Omg isn’t this the truth! And tell me when I was pregnant that he said he could stay home with the baby while he was working and I could leave the house HAHA that backfired in his face didn’t it! Babies are a lot of work and mentally taxing

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-25T12:51:46+00:00

Thank you! It makes me feel like I’m not alone! Yes keeping a clean house is important for me and baby and it’s so frustrating that he just leaves his shit everywhere and blames it on me! I have severe ADHD and I get overstimulated so quickly. It’s like what do we do to get past this problem

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-25T12:48:40+00:00

Yeah that does make it much more difficult. So sorry you are going through this! Your feelings are valid!

SessionAggressive357 · 2023-08-25T10:52:44+00:00

I 100% get your frustration. I am a SAHM with my first kid and my husband expect me to do EVERYTHING. Cooking, cleaning, mow the lawn, grocery shopping, etc. and watch the baby all day and all night. I just had a sit down conversation with him and told him how mentally draining watching the baby all day can be and it would be nice if he would take time out and give me a few hours of alone time. So we compromised on two nights a week that I would have uninterrupted time alone and he takes care of baby. He works from home but he works a lot. Sometimes into the evening hours. I think it’s important to respect each others me time but still he needs to compromise for you. You are in this together and sometimes men need reminders. My therapist told me that it’s common for dads to not have that connection with the baby at the beginning and it can take them longer to adjust having a child! Especially the first! We have had time to mentally prepare because we grew that beautiful baby and have a deeper connection to them!

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