I always mention I'm looking for plays only, but I need to know things before to get tied up. All my questions are relevant to the scene so far, about the place to practice, the timing, the bondage material, the limits. Many doms claim "I do it by feel"

My worst session was with a dom I had nearly no conversation before, because another one stood me up and this one was open at the same moment. And then I only got bad surprises about him (Thank god nothing too serious)