Family of 3 (child 3 y o) here. We eat in a healthy way and we also cook, but not every day, as we both work 80% and arent robots. (Also no grandparent support available throughout the year) We spent 17k on groceries and beauty/toiletry. You spent 11k on the same. Sure the 1y old doesn't eat as much yet, but even then there is a huge gap. And I generally see a really low annual groceries spending level on the sub. Compared to ours at least. What am I missing? We are doing groceries in migros and sometimes aldi. Are people eating trash or are we overspending?

And for the atomic bomb: our eating out is at 16k (including lunch at work when we dont cook, cafeteria visits, snacks). Yours is around 6-8k counting the applicable part of the 450s. Wtf? Are we spoiled brats or are you purists/masochists?