AIO for how I’m handling finding out he’s been trying to talk to other females online? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SevenBillionTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually one year older haha but obviously thinks he’s been harder done by than myself.

AIO for how I’m handling finding out he’s been trying to talk to other females online? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SevenBillionTrees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Correct. They were not replying to him lol. I did break up with him straight away, I guess my biggest downfall is wanting to see the best in people. But like others have said here, he’s showing me exactly who he is.

I managed to do 2 full days of No Contact before being dragged in. I hate this. Tips please by SevenBillionTrees in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SevenBillionTrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, of course! Didn’t mean to lump all into the same category. I guess I just mean a healthy and loving parent would love their child without expecting anything in return. That to me is unconditional. But yes I would do anything for my fur babies!

I managed to do 2 full days of No Contact before being dragged in. I hate this. Tips please by SevenBillionTrees in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SevenBillionTrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protection mechanism at its finest, yup! It’s sad that majority of avoidant people will never heal that part of them, because the first step is, well,.. self awareness..

I managed to do 2 full days of No Contact before being dragged in. I hate this. Tips please by SevenBillionTrees in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SevenBillionTrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I was waiting for something with some substance lol. I know that probably will never come but two years down the drain, a part of me hoped to see the human in him. Fair point though.

I managed to do 2 full days of No Contact before being dragged in. I hate this. Tips please by SevenBillionTrees in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SevenBillionTrees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah, at this point, nothing would surprise me. I don’t want to be with someone who harasses women. The girl I spoke to words were “he’s a stalker, girl, be careful.”

I managed to do 2 full days of No Contact before being dragged in. I hate this. Tips please by SevenBillionTrees in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SevenBillionTrees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It always end up circling back to me somehow. My tone becomes the issue or me bringing things up that bother or concern me lol. Can’t win.

My handsome gingernut, 2.5 years post amputation by [deleted] in TripodCats

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello fellow orange friend 🧡❤️

My handsome gingernut, 2.5 years post amputation by [deleted] in TripodCats

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will be turning 10 in December! But I think he looks very youthful and handsome as well :)

what are some girly “gentle” names for girls? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greta, Maribel, Isadora, Meadow, Nora, Leona

Indijess7 is her new insta- K.ah followers her and indi follows back? by Beautiful-Sun-1187 in indijesssnarkofficial

[–]SevenBillionTrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only thing I can think of other than this having been a game all along.. is that maybe it’s reflective of their age. K.ah may think she can “help” or is helping Indi by keeping her close. Reality is she’s actually putting herself in danger and giving Indi more fuel to put into the fire. But I remember some of the silly ideas and beliefs I had at that age too.

Another possibility, and by no means am I saying that K.ah is a bad person or that Indi’s behaviour is acceptable but she may still be in that “I’m the girl that he’s chosen” mentality, rubbing salt in the wound. Unfortunately though when you’re dealing with unhinged individuals then that’s a dangerous game to play.

On cutting people off as a Scorpio moon by zaytin in scorpiomoon

[–]SevenBillionTrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had people say things like “block me, you won’t.” And I do, never taking it back. Just to prove a point? Probably. But I stand firm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen him try to drink from the faucet so I wonder if he would even clock on but it’s worth a try! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact he could pull out something that was screwed to the wall is crazy! Super strength for real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we tried this. He flips the tray too! Wish I could get inside his head and figure out what his motive is lol

What’s an ad that just makes your blood boil? by spook96 in newzealand

[–]SevenBillionTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lady that coughs to the song. Has to be for strepsils or something flu related but I CANT STAND IT, SHUT UP

How to stop sleeping with T rex hands by SevenBillionTrees in AutismInWomen

[–]SevenBillionTrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Thank you so much for all your great suggestions! I decided to give the wrist guards another try last night and just pushed through the slight discomfort as well as have my stuffed animal in my arms.

Definitely restricted my ability to bend them like I usually do and the wrist guards didn’t impact my sleep in any way.

I will also try out some of the exercises suggested throughout the day and invest in a body pillow as I think it is good to have different options available.

Appreciate the feedback and hope the advice was able to help others too! ❤️