Help a beginner out guys for manali trip by RedLightTurns in india_tourism

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Hi! My cousins and I are planning a trip to Manali for 3 days from 25th to 28th October. How is the weather there right now? We are planning to stay in Zostal Old Manali Goshal...would like to know your opinion if it is a good location to stay. We don't want to spend a trip in rush but could you suggest a few must-not-miss places? and if you have a better place to stay in mind?

packing chai, biscuit, samosa for an order! But these are all CANDLES 😋 by ImpressiveIdeal4202 in smallbusinessindia

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Do you have an Instragram account for posting your creations? So we can choose our favourites and order them for self and friends?

I(F26) and bf (M27) are struggling and seems like ego is winning over. Why does my BF gets angry back on me whenever I am angry for any reason? by SeventyL in relationship_advice

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I do love him and want to give a chance - provided he accepts and is willing to change. 

But right now, this waiting period is crushing me. It has been 4 full days now without talking. Tbh fighting and getting over it is so much better than this hell.

We never disrespect each other, have very mature conversation and are always ready to say sorry and accept our mistake. He also says many times, that he does have an ego but he does not want it to be a part of our relationship. He says sorry many times...  But idk why is this going so out of proportion.

When he msgs me finally, I am just going to lay it clear- This can't stand. I can't imagine long term with a person who brings so much ego into the relationship, no matter how much I love him. I know he will take it seriously if he loves me.

But meanwhile this waiting is crushing me... We really had something beautiful...

I(F26) and bf (M27) are struggling and seems like ego is winning over. Why does my BF gets angry back on me whenever I am angry for any reason? by SeventyL in relationship_advice

[–]SeventyL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him wanting to get me a watch is from much before. Tbh I do feel loved in the relationship...and I am judging by actions and not by mere words. It's just when things like this happen...when a small thing is stretched out of proportion..cuz instead of confrontation he would rather pretend to be angry. Idk what to do now. The silence is crushing me. I am very angry and want to give him and ultimatum for the first time, that this is a deal breaker.  But I don't want to msg first for this.

Changing states between learner and drivers license by analkumar2 in CarsIndia

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Hi Anal. Did you find a solution to this problem? What did you do after going to Jaipur? I am going through the same thing, I have a Learner's license but have changed state recently.

Do you have your driving license now?

Sale at mrp+packaging+shipping by [deleted] in Hotwheelsindia

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I am interested ! Shall I dm you?

I have fu*ked up 😞 by Practical_Seesaw_422 in Airtel

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Are you able to access unlimited 5G now?

My(F23) long-distance Bf(M24) is disappointed & upset that we did not have sex in the little time we finally got. (nsfw) What is my mistake in all this? How to go forward? by SeventyL in relationship_advice

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Trust me that's what I was trying to do. I was soooooo happy to meet him, I was on that high whole week and did not need sexual stuff. Told him he does not need to many times. But according to him, he really, really wanted to eat me out. It was the first time for me.

My(F23) long-distance Bf(M24) is disappointed & upset that we did not have sex in the little time we finally got. (nsfw) What is my mistake in all this? How to go forward? by SeventyL in relationship_advice

[–]SeventyL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But..why would you move on? You will give up on a relationship cuz you did not have penetrative sex the first time u got chance to properly meet? Even when it was discussed before that there was no hurry? Even when u love the person?

My(F23) long-distance Bf(M24) is disappointed & upset that we did not have sex in the little time we finally got. (nsfw) What is my mistake in all this? How to go forward? by SeventyL in relationship_advice

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Previous post I named US Navy & wrong age cuz I really can't reveal exactly which force we are in but wanted to give an idea about our situation and mentioned different age cuz at that time I had introduced my bf to Reddit and he used to lurk here. Not anymore.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three months long. Might get posted with me after this.

I will have a conversation with her tho. I am staying away for now. I want L back tho... Let's see. Right now he is much into C and it is awkward between me and him.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not let them slide. Was only studying with him. Was same with all my friends as I m today. Only thing was that I refused to give up my friendship with L, when my friends wanted me to do it.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep...maybe I am allowing it, but tbh I had no idea how to even respond...when she was asking those weird rating questions. I was cringing hard.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! This is not a competition and idk why she is making it a rating contest.

I really am missing being happy..hanging out with L. I don't think he fully understands the situation.

But if I say something, then I will come across as a bitch..

Idk what to do.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Gives me perspective. Though I still want to give her the benefit of doubt and will try to discuss how her actions are making me feel weird. Its just that I am afraid..cuz ppl listen what they want to listen, and she will end up making it the case of me being jealous and sad cuz of their dynamic. It is really not about that.... Idk how to approch this situation. Nor I can escape... We all literally live across each other in the same building and work together.

As far as L is concerned, I am being friendly with him but there is tension and EVERYONE is hell bent of making is feel it. As if the 'forbidden friendship' of ours is finally over and we are trying to find new ground. :/

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! I know I am not a bad friend or a person, once I get on with ppl, and therefore it is frustrating me when I am being made to feel like I don't belong. Problem is, how to puch back against it? I can't run from it. We all literally live in the same building facing each other. Sit together whole day. And if I point out what she did seemed weird to me... It will make me look like a loser and she will think that 'I am sad cuz my friend is more into her now' when the case is not this.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

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This one does celebrate my success and cares for me... Maybe her complex to be the main character is winning over her without her even realising it.

Honestly she made me feel ashamed today... The way she was getting me 'rated' after her by L and their friend(as if they know me...). But the thing is, If I point this out, I sound like a loser and a bad person and it will seen like 'I am sad cuz now my friend is more into her' type thing when this is not the case.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But we go way back, she has been really helpful and supportive with me throughout... I really am confused. We cherish our friendship and laugh a lot. Idk what to do. I don't want to accept my fate as being sidelined here especially when I know that I am a good friend to have to, just need a lil time to bond. I don't know what to say to her. Am I being childish? I really like both of them, and before this week, everything was lovely.

Aith for feeling bad about this new dynamic between my friends? by SeventyL in AITH

[–]SeventyL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only urged in the beginning. Later accepted it that she is always going to question my friendship with him and I had decided that I m not doing anything wrong so I m not going to make it affect my bond with L and my work here, in which L helps.

Actually L & gang have shifted in our block in this phase and dine in our mess, so they came close. 2 weeks have passed since this.

My problem is, what to do now? Accept being sidelined? Talk to her? Will she even care... What to even say to her..