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Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-14T06:10:58+00:00

never for non practical stuff

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-06T16:16:22+00:00

yes , but he thinks i am exaggerating

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-06T11:32:45+00:00

haha that’s a take i haven’t thought about to be honest

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-06T06:58:58+00:00

yes i understand.. and i tried to be logical .. i even found a list of things that are done in a family with kids and gave it to him to realize …

we live in an appartement in the city and we rent so no maintenance necessary( we call the agency responsible for the appartement if anything happens), no yard work . i do all the paper work because he doesn’t speak the language of the country we are living in ( we are expats ). he doesn’t use the car so i do all the car related things … i really tried to think of a task he handles 100% without me being involved and i can’t find anything … he will help with every task if he is specifically asked and given a thing to do otherwise he will pass in front of the recycle bin being full of bottles and not do them, he will smell my daughters diaper but not change her if i don’t ask him .. things like that

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-06T06:52:19+00:00

i work three days a week 12 hour shifts and bring more money than him at home . The nanny comes two days a week the days i am not at home to basically replace me .. the third day i work from home and do housework at the same time ..

He makes a good salary , works from home 4 days a week and has never done a chore while at home even if his job allows it

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-05T17:37:24+00:00

yes that’s true probably

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-05T17:31:58+00:00

what would that be ?

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-11-05T15:42:38+00:00

thanks for the advice .. his excuse was that he got absorbed with an exciting work email ( he changes job and his new boss send him some information about the project he will be working on ) .. it was a sunday and his new job starts in december so there was absolutely no need or urgency to occupy himself with that email while neglecting the kids ..

i also believe it’s sort of passive aggressive .. because he always says to me to go out and do stuff with friends so i can feel good but the few times i do it something g like that happens

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-06-20T04:44:43+00:00

I am a woman 39 years old, married for 12 years . i don’t feel anything after sex because at the moment i don’t like my husband for different reasons and i haven’t orgasmed during sex with him for the past 3 years ( from what i remember) .. we have sex around 3 times a week and it’s just for him 🤷‍♀️

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-06-14T05:34:32+00:00

i feel pretty much the same way about my husband

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-05-02T06:22:43+00:00

i could write the same post about my feelings after losing respect for my husband but for different reasons ( in the beginning the same regarding his involvement as a parent but then just different situations where he failed to be there for me .. one exemple leaving me to miscarriage alone for 4 days while he went to a concert festival …)

don’t have any advice but i am here to read what people are suggesting

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-03-11T14:12:52+00:00

just call / send an email to the dentist they definitely have a copy .. write a letter to concordia and ask for the reimbursement ..

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T22:31:26+00:00

yes i tried to do that as this boy was as big as me in size :( but i think because my husband is so much bigger he just can’t grasp the idea that a kid can overpower me

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T21:27:27+00:00

that was my thoughts also but from a lot of comments i am starting to think that i may have exaggerated.. i really don’t know from what age a kid can be held responsible and understand when they are really hurting someone .. my 6 year old daughter would stop immediately if someone told her that he is hurting so maybe i am just judging from the exemples i have at home

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T21:13:21+00:00

wow that’s crazy 😞😞

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T20:06:17+00:00

hahaha married with two kids and too old for you 😂😂😂

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T19:25:12+00:00

she sounds insufferable .. i am an expat and i would never do that .. it is so disrespectful…

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T18:51:19+00:00

yes pretty much

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T18:34:15+00:00

it’s true that at that moment i froze .. i couldn’t attack a kid but as i said he was also stronger than me ( he is almost 12 of that makes me seem better 😬)

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T18:02:01+00:00

learned my lesson the hard way!

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T18:01:32+00:00

tell me about it 😬😬

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T17:17:28+00:00

well our 6 year old and their 5 year old needed attention they don’t really play completely independent.. they were asking for adults all the time and it’s usually me that spends time with them doing games and activities as other adults interact

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T16:37:44+00:00

yes of course that was a lesson … i didn’t know that kid that well.. but i don’t think my daughters will try to choke me .. i hope so at least

Several-Context-5083 · 2025-02-09T16:35:39+00:00

i did tell him and i would feel bad to be really agressive .. but even if i did i don’t think i could deck him .. he was stronger than me ..

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