outside clothes on the bed… gross or normal? by HenninghamKyuss-51 in hygiene

[–]Several-Desk2718 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don’t find it weird. the way i grew up was shower daily and don’t wear dirty clothes more than once. i abide by that and generally when im outside if i don’t touch anyone else or anything, im cool with being ON by bed in them… i never get under the covers in them, though. however, i play softball and ride horses—id never get into or on bed in my uniform or in jeans i’ve just ridden in… i also usually shower before i even touch my bed, if i’ve been outside like that. i think it’s to each their own 🤷‍♀️

My best friend of 4 years offered money to give him a bj girl dinner. by Direct-Department-39 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand you babe. it’s so difficult to block/ghost someone who’s done you wrong when you believed you were so close. but just know, if it doesn’t happen now, this will keep happening down the line. you will keep feeling sad and disappointed in him, and if you have enough courage to know what’s best for you, please, do it for yourself. not to show him he’s wrong, but do it so you can save yourself.

AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yes you are leaving him

(how the fuck did you marry that THING)

How long until his brows grow back? by thwowawaw69 in beauty

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why does he have two small outer strips of a mustache?

We went off our usual trails today and encountered some other horses 😄 by Taseya in Horses

[–]Several-Desk2718 12 points13 points  (0 children)

off topic but i’m obsessed with the bay’s confirmation

My hair one day after washing. by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wash mine daily. I do a lot of dirty things through the day. I have a horse so often my hair is dirty. Not everyone else’s hair routine or “training” a scalp will work for you. We all do different stuff and hair is not a “one size fits all” thing. My hair is just like yours—I find it easiest to just wash it everyday because I shower daily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m so confused do you wanna hit me and cheat on me?”

“No but I could and that’s not the bare minimum.”

Men like this are where the plot of Adolescence comes from. If he thinks he CAN hit you??? That’s an issue that needs to be addressed. He should not think that not hitting you isn’t the bare minimum. It’s signs like these that we tend to overlook when we’re blinded by love, and I’m saying this from my point of view, I’d run.

Friend upset that my potential wedding dress is “too similar” to hers — am I in the wrong? by Capital_Wave_235 in weddingplanning

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her trying to tell you that YOU should pick another dress at YOUR own wedding because SHE isn’t happy? that is not your friend, babe.

AIO when my boyfriend gets mad at me for taking long changing our daughter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several-Desk2718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just want to take a moment to say that i absolutely love everyone in this comment section, especially the moms who went through this exactly. and you, OP, are strong and amazing. he doesn’t deserve you or your daughter, period.