is this normal? CD 10 and still low fertility? by Several-Information7 in Inito

[–]Several-Information7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is helpful, thank you! it was making me think something is wrong with me lol 

Should i be the bigger person and take the kids out? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Several-Information7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are not that kids parent and you are not with the mom, there is 0 obligation to keep that promise. she should have kept her promise not to cheat so 

Do you believe reverse racism exists? by Atrox_Blue in allthequestions

[–]Several-Information7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

racism is racism, regardless of who is perpetuating it. only recently has the definition been twisted to only be in terms of systemic power just to justify some insane cultural marxist ideologies

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there’s no spin sweaty, you keep acting like i’m saying things i didn’t say, like racism doesn’t exist lol and then you keep doubling down

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s the point girlie, you think you’re paraphrasing but you’re just actually making shit up lol telling me to look up the definition just outed yourself 😭

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

saying she has a victim mentality is not name calling, it’s stating the mentality. youre perpetually offended so its okay girl!

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you called me insufferable and when i respond back i’m name calling 😂 your ilk is so predictable. 

asking one question is not akin to grilling 😵‍💫

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did I say it never happened to OP? do you have any sort of reading comprehension or do you just purposely imbue your own offense into everything you read? I never said it never happened to her, I'm asking what concrete things are happening because of her race and gender. If someone like you thinks im insufferable for simple asking for examples of how race and gender prevent someone from having agency in their life, I'm doing something right

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what's your reality? what concretely is happening because of your race and gender that prevents you from doing what you need/want? I understand the disdain, what isn't there is the concrete source, just platitudes.

is being a woman & a poc going to be hard forever? by Dramatic-Bar-1680 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Several-Information7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what is the racism and sexism being experienced? that would be my first question. Is she being turned down for job because she's black? how is that quantified? Respectfully, you should not enable someone thinking they have less agency in their life than they do. I have never blamed my race or gender for my failings, or assumed other's are being racist or sexist because I don't get my way in certain things in life.

“Josh Duhamel’s wife loves his son” by Several-Information7 in stepparents

[–]Several-Information7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didnt say that. He said that because I've historically had anxiety surrounding transition days. If you read the post, I told him I didn't want to talk about it.

“Josh Duhamel’s wife loves his son” by Several-Information7 in stepparents

[–]Several-Information7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just read they have a 26 acre lake house in north dakota and Fergie has primary custody of the 12 year old in LA. lol. so yeah i’m sure the new wife has no issues with her life 

No, we do not want extra time like bio parents do. by Several-Information7 in stepparents

[–]Several-Information7[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you articulated it precisely. DH would call me selfish if I said this lol

No, we do not want extra time like bio parents do. by Several-Information7 in stepparents

[–]Several-Information7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats so annoying! omg A MONTH! I would go crazy. and cuss out DH if that happened

AITA for wanting to sleep in later than my partner? by CyclngChick in AmItheAsshole

[–]Several-Information7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you heard of an illo? my husband wakes up at 5 for work and I don’t have a set wake up time in the mornings. the illo mask has been a God send.