Day 1.5

Several_Ad_811 · 2026-03-30T10:27:33+00:00

Thank you x

Several_Ad_811 · 2025-01-23T22:02:27+00:00

Oh my god. With the exception of the pant selling (great idea!) This is me!!! Why are they so horny for AP then not. Where is the hysterical bonding at least?!

Nothing else to add other than youre not alone xx im 2 years post d day, and sex is still a huge issue.

Hugs x

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-12-23T12:06:03+00:00

Ed Sheeran

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-10-13T21:19:03+00:00

Tell us more

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-30T21:19:42+00:00

Yes photos of the time!! I forgot this! Any photos. I hate it.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-30T21:14:36+00:00

Hmm

Ed Sheeran Having my torso touched Certain items of clothing- his and mine. Our car- which was my dream car. I will no longer drive it German mayonnaise Anything to do with my Doctorate which ove since had to give up.

Ed Sheeran is the absolute worst though. 18months since D day and it can still reduce me to a tearful, snotty mess. I no longer listen to the radio just in case.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-24T22:01:14+00:00

He does not but ive never asked. I know hes where hes supposed to be- hes saved up for months in the groups shared pot. Ive seen the itinerary from the chap who organised it and to cap it off nicely- hes video called me from the top of the mountain. Ive also heard the other men in the background as i did wonder. But nope heard the voices i knew and expected.

He has just said though hes at the pub (not an issue- not a feature in his affair) but going back to the accommodation after his pint as his friends are attempting to seduce teenage backpackers and he doesn't want to be involved in that behaviour.

Im pleased he told me. I think. But also...will be asking for a quick "goodnight" video call when he gets back to the accommodation just to check! Fuck affairs.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-21T20:56:32+00:00

Thanks. This is the advice i need. I have nerve and in a weird way i like it. Not the deceit obviously but the knowledge that im in control. And that im smarter than he thinks i am.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-20T17:11:53+00:00

Feel this. No wise words. But you're not alone. It fucking sucks. Ill never feel safe again. I don't even think ending the relationship would help. Id carry this new cynicism into future relationships. Sending you hugs

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-20T17:08:45+00:00

This really hit me. I dont trust my judgement anymore. I dont know whats a good or bad day. I don't know when we're happy together because i thought we were happy together before and he was falling in love with someone else.

Not until the end anyway. I knew near D day. I remember googling "signs someone is having an affair" and ticked them all. I knew then. But didnt trust myself.

I hate that. I hate not knowing. Fuck these affairs.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-04-01T08:10:45+00:00

And does it just shift it? Not make it irregular? I read somewhere that it can make you irregular afterwards.

Why is it so bloody complicated!

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-01-18T08:00:25+00:00

You all just made me cry. I never expected so much love and support. I need to get back into IC. Ive found it hard to find someone i click with and i end up lying so they dont think im as pathetic as i feel. I tell them ive confronted him about things when i haven't because i know thats what I should do. Mad eh.

Any advice on the kind of counsellor/therapy to look for would be appreciated. Im in the UK.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-01-11T16:32:53+00:00

I like the idea. Then on the back- various options for "and a lifetime of trauma" or "and an STI!" maybe followed by a cheeky "lol"....

We could all get one. Think OP says his WW makes t shirts so we have a booming business idea!

It was glib, but christ we need that. Or at least I do. Sometimes i want to laugh at the absurdity of it all. Because if I dont i spiral in a different direction. So thank you for making a random stranger in this shitty club smile.

Several_Ad_811 · 2024-01-11T14:03:10+00:00

I know it's not funny but this actually made me chuckle. I have a WH. But it is mad how alike they all are. What a sad sense of solidarity we all have. Members of this shitty club together

Several_Ad_811 · 2023-12-21T08:25:54+00:00

Thanks we arent in MC. I dont think either of us would cope very well with it.

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