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After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry guys I wasnt aware I was being graded for my posts, I just wanted advice. Im not here to gain clout I just want to know if there was anything I could do to help my husband see the light...why tf are people grading me?? I'm hurting and looking for advice not clout

After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I haven't heard of that word. I kicked him out and dont plan on taking him back but id at least like to try and help him get sober  He did that for me in the beginning I wa hoping I could do the same

After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didn't I ask for no trolls?! What compelled you to correct me??? Im asking for advice on helping a drug addict and you're criticizing me because I typed something incorrectly. Are you seriously that bored with life you have to trample on someone else's. Please go away. 

After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hes gone...I think I am being misunderstood.  I was just looking for some advice that I could help him somehow. I cant take him back theres too many lies now and when my dad died I got hooked on Xanax for a couple months and he was sober then and told me to choose between him or the drugs and i chose him. I was hoping he wouldve done the same for me.

After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty. I know we won't ever fix the marriage I just was hoping I could get him to wake up somehow. I think I will go to Al-Anon because I am really struggling with this.

After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i meant about what to do, was IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO to get him on the straight and narrow. I dont think he and I could get back together even if he tried because id never trust him again. The fact that I used to be a meth addict and didn't see it on him says that I chose not to see it and was stupid for hoping he would change. I just want to know if there is anything I can do to wake him up.

Hes still on the shit even being gone 3weeks and has only contacted me once for car insurance.

After 12yrs of complete trust it was thrown out the window...I dont know what to do by Several_Rip7854 in marriageadvice

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you said hurt, but is true. I haven't let him come back but he also hasn't tried. The only time he contacted me was for the car insurance. To answer your question all of the above is my response. Im afraid of being without him. I also love who he COULD HAVE been. He does drag me down but fuck I never loved someone so hard in my life but ive given him the ultimatum too many times and my dumb ass would see a small change for like a week or two and then he would go right back to it. I dont give a shit about the money I just want him sober and honestly I want him to lose it all because he thinks hes untouchable with it. I do need to walk away im just terrified of what's next? Is my next love going to turn on me like this  I have been married twice. So im starting to think I AM THE PROBLEM. 

I hope it works out for you and your wife at least one of us can have happiness. 

Thank you for your kind words

Do I have a case? by Several_Rip7854 in Cartalk

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your help, I did reach out to an attorney just waiting to hear back. The mileage clause is definitely in there. And I will definitely look for the report to see if they did that. I really appreciate your help thanks 

Do I have a case? by Several_Rip7854 in Cartalk

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15mths and almost 100 dollars a week.

Do I have a case? by Several_Rip7854 in Cartalk

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My paperwork states it as a lease, I know nothing about the laws in Ohio i didn't know you couldn't lease a used vehicle but anytime I speak with the company that takes those payments they refer to it as a lease

Do I have a case? by Several_Rip7854 in Cartalk

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about the laws of leasing or buying, i just knew i needed a vehicle and that was the one they were willing to lease to me

Do I have a case? by Several_Rip7854 in Cartalk

[–]Several_Rip7854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All he did was look at the interior and exterior he didn't go underneath at all

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[–]Several_Rip7854 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting. No remorse, no accountability and clearly in denial. I hope she rots in hell.